Quote: Originally Posted by carly I didn't read any other advice yet, but I think you should invite. Whether you like her or not won't change the fact that she's going to be your sister-in-law. You don't have to talk to her at your shower if you don't want to, but I think you do need to invite her. I know, I know, totally not what you wanted to hear, but you really don't want to start off your new life with this family on such a sour note. Definitely agree with Carly on this. Sometimes we just do things for the bigger picture to turn out for the best. Coming into a family I think its best just keeping the peace.