**~Linda~**

ET: Henry Thomas

I vote for beautiful mix of cultures as well . Im Puerto Rican, my husband is Italian- American and it was a gorgeous blend of Latin/Italian/American/Island music...

Never Been Kissed: Drew Barrymore

Very cute! Love them!

Great story and gorgeous memory of it!

I think they are gorgeous choices !

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Everything looks gorgeous Hol's! yayyyy! So excited!

Then just do black if thats what you like i know plenty of brides that have done black tuxes with no issues. If thats the way you want your wedding to look then go for it.

Why not just go for the Khaki linen suit? That way you can get the suit/tuxy look and the casualness of the fabric in one ?! I mean honestly we did Tuxes for our wedding but they were a lighter color and only because the hubby felt that he wanted the look of a tux, the kids wore linen pants and a guyabera linen shirt with long sleeves and short sleeves for the younger one!

Im in between sugar shack and sassy sweets! I like both of them ALOT! Sugar Shack kinda makes me think of getting your sugar fix LMAO and Sassy Sweets makes me think of sexy sweet delights !

Jo, I actually like it more than the original honestly but I completely understand the concern about the measurements! All in all i guess cross your fingers recheck again(im a freak like that) make sure they didn't screw up in sizing so that its not your fault if it comes in wrong and hope for the best. But it looks totally gorgeous, i love the sleeve detail you added! Where in heck did you find those shoes?! Those are awesome!

So romantic looking! I love them Ang!

Second champagne colored one!

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Yes I agree with Carly. Unless its just completely out of your budget .

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Congrats to you both ladies!

If all those things are deemed as touristy then just go for the traditional Almonds in a box, picture frames with picture of the couple. Etc.

Oh hun I completely understand your feelings. DH and I went through the same thing specifically with my side of family and friends but honestly all you can do is just exactly what you did. Realize who is really there for you through it all and move on from it. I can't tell you to try and forget it, because trust me I still haven't nor do I think I will ever forget how many people just plain ol disappointed me. All I can say is im super sorry that your those friends haven't even made an effort to contact you after the fact.

Most definitely so if it was beneficial to my family If you had a dying wish which what would it be?

Quote: Originally Posted by *Nadine* I think alot of people do that.. but its a real personal thing so I dont think anyone can really help you on this one! Think of little inside jokes b/w you two, favorite places, special dates, sayings etc. Make it meaningful. I agree 100% with Nad's on this. I had DH wedding band engraved with our "usernames" and our wedding date since we met online ... To us this was something special and meaningful.

There are tons of purple shoes out there.. Look in zappos.com or even dsw. I found some gorgeous purple shoes on the clearance rack of dsw for $20 which im wearing to the AHR. Also try famous footwear !

Yup I did it as well. My suggestion is pick a color or a color pallet and get a swatch and give a piece to them so that they know what your looking for and can go find the dress that best looks on them !

Please don't hate me for this but I think you need to breathe a bit and relax. From what it seems your FI really wants him to be a GM and part of the bridal party. I do understand the fact that his ambivalence between coming or not is not fair(trust me we went through this with FI's brother) but what I suggest you do is sit and talk to your FI and ask him to set a time limit for him to give you guys an answer as far as him being in the bridal party or not because uniformity is important to you. By giving him a time frame you can guarantee that you have enough time to purchase an outfit if need be that matches the bridal party and will also give you a bit more ease of mind. HTH remember try not to stress with these things. When the day of the wedding comes trust me nothing that seems super important now will be of any importance then ..