Quote: Originally Posted by Chantal85 You are not alone! I hear you! Goodness do I ever know that feeling of being sick and tired. I've been hearing passive aggressive comments from the in-laws side and my own mother stomps her feet at every wedding detail we discuss. In fact, we aren't on speaking terms right now because she upsets me so much, making me feel bad about my wedding choice.
I've been so upset that I have turned to my FI and said "I don't want a wedding!"
But my FI has a good motto that he has adopted...(excuse the profanity) but he says "F**K 'EM!" because in the end, its just the two of us in this relationship.
If this is what you and your FI want, do it. Those who don't want to co-operate or join in are definitely missing out. If there's one thing I've learned from this forum, its that most DW guests end up having the time of their life.
Don't beat yourself up. This trouble is fairly normal. I end this reply wishing you strength and happiness....and a fantastic wedding in PV! I agree with your FI's motto! Don't let the comments bother you, trust me, we've all been there. Just enjoy your day and do things the way you want regardless of who comes.