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You can absolutely still do a wedding party portion, why not? You are recognizing those that are standing up for you at the wedding. I would just list it all out.. Start with a list of bridal party; then go into readings (if you have them) and detail the steps of the ceremony in order. Here are a couple things I found when I just did a quick google search- Wedding Program Wording Wedding Programs: The Basics

While I can understand where you are coming from; you are going to probably make a lot of people upset if you only invite "certain children". That's just not proper and makes it seem like you think that their children can't behave. This would be a recipe for disaster; even though your intentions are good. I agree with the others that you have to go all or nothing. Just have an adults only reception (no children at all!) and arrange for babysitting or nanny service during it.

That is a tough one.. I agree with Harty and Deb both though.. First, all we can offer on here is our own personal opinions. We all have our own histories, baggage, etc... which influences what we may offer as feedback. That being said, this is your decision and you ARE the one who has to live it. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty as long as you are doing what you think is right and is best. I will say this.. that no matter what she does - she is your stepmother and if you father truly loves her - she is not going anywhere and will always be part of your life. If it won't put a huge crimp in your ceremony; I would be the better person, rise above her pettiness/cruelty and let her come. Talk to your Mother and make sure that she knows that you are only inviting Evil Stepmom out of respect to your Father; that she is the Mother you want there and love. If you truly can't stomach her being there; then I agree with Debs - just do a church ceremony with you and FI to nix the drama. Like I said, that's just my opinion and everyone on here will support you no matter what you do. Good Luck!

Super cute!! Thanks for sharing!

A lot of ladies on here buy a second dress for their TTD. Personally, I am wearing my dress and then getting it cleaned when I get home. I don't plan on wearing it again - so if it doesn't come out perfect afterwards; then that's okay with me.

It's beautiful!! Absolutely appropriate for a TTD. I don't think that there is any standard for what is appropriate for one.. it's whatever you like!

That is fabulous!! What a great friend.. I can't wait to see pictures of this dress; it sounds amazing. I would definitely do something to thank her! Is she coming to the wedding? If so, maybe acknowledge her in a certain way.. add something to your programs saying "Brides dress made by...".

We are doing the same as Jen above... we are putting it into our wedding budget. Honestly, we live together anyway so it's already both of our $$ at this point. I think that whatever you and FI are comfortable with is what's best for your situation.

I honestly think that's up to you. IMHO, I think that the white would look stunning as an accent color given that your dress is ivory with a white lace overlay. I would do a white veil, white shoes, white FG dress, etc... It will make you stand out and the ivory in your dress will go well with the tan colors on the GM's and FI.

I don't think the bridal shops will mind at all!! I started looking in August 08 and we are getting married in August 09. Honestly, it was almost not enough time for me. I found my dress at the end of December 08 and it was just before the cut off when I would have had to pay more to have it rushed so I can have alterations done on time. Go look and have fun!

Very cute! Love the color!!

OMG!! Where did you get that? FI would LOVE that.. Share please...

Ohh.. I am not very crafty and can't sew worth anything; so I am not much help on suggestions as to how to fix it. BUT, I would call the company and complain since it is falling apart. If they will not help you, I would report them to the Better Business Bureau and on any wedding blogs/sites you can find. Make you sure tell them you will do this.. that may entice them to help.

If you are very specific with the color you want; 'Soon To Be' may be right... Where did you find that color swatch?

Hmmm... there has to be something. Let me think and get back to you!

Great find!! Thank you.. they also have mini digital camera's that are fabulous too for $9.95 each; $8.95 each if you buy 20. I may go that route bc I want everyone to load their pics on our picture share website. Ultra Compact Mini Digital Keychain Camera

I have never heard of such a silly thing!!! The BP should absolutely get invites.. If you want someone to come to the wedding; they should get an invite. As a lot of us on here go, you can't assume someone is coming just bc they are in your BP!

We are having a BP.. it started off with 5 BM's and 5 GM's; it has already dwindled to 3 of each. =) And, our BP is all friends with one of my best friends as the MOH. I have one honorary BM who will do a reading or something for us. For me, I wanted BM's for the comraderie and the help... it gives us all an excuse to get together regularly and have some fun while doing wedding stuff (or more likely, drink wine!). He he.. I think that you are okay either way. I think that there is something so romantic about just seeing 2 people on the beach getting married; standing up for themselves. It's almost like a romantic elopement with an audience of friends and family.

I can probably be there around 530ish.. just depends upon how the day goes. Maybe earlier..

Yeah!! Congrats!!! Cant wait to see pics!

Quote: Originally Posted by blondie25 I just processed my 100$ deposit via paypal. We have to fax her the contract? Yippy! I faxed her mine.. it was easier.

I found this thread too... http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t9408

I would do a search on here .. I did a quick one and found this thread: http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t32950 There are so many good ideas on here and I am sure that this has come up more than once! =)

It absolutely depends on your body type as Elizabeth said. Generally, Aline dresses are considered universally flattering. I would go as Elizabeth also said and just tell the salesperson up front that you are not ready to buy anything and just want to look to get an idea of what works for you. I would highly recommend that you don't buy anything online without trying dresses on first. Usually gowns are non-returnable/refundable! And.. most of the dresses I thought would flatter my body; looked awful and those that I thought wouldn't look good, looked great! And I did look at DB and those sales people were the least 'pushy' I encountered.

Quote: Originally Posted by dushantz The second opinion travel agent mentioned that we needed to put deposits down for ten people minimum (not a problem at all) and any additions could have the same group rate subject to availability. This made me much more relaxed as it was kind of what I assumed happened for these events. The first travel agent, I think she just didn't want to work on Saturday or something. We're still considering other areas in Cuba other than Varadero. If I was going to choose in Varadero I would have chosen their resort (Iberostar). And that's all a bit copy-copy lol. We were joking that we could steal an idea from each one of our close friends wedding and end up with a mish-mash of terribleness lol. Your 'second opinion TA' gave you the same option that I ended up doing which has worked out great for me. I agree w/the other ladies; there are some amazing TA's on this site- you should talk to one of them!