since our daughter and fiancé will be driving to cali. And we will be driving we are putting them in their car and giving them at the reception. We are also giving a small gift & snack to those who are not sailing with us but have driven to be aboard for the event. So no one's left out. We have really been tossing this around since some one mentioned it on one of the boards. So this is the idea we came up with. That way no hurt feeling, no luggage worries and no postage.