I just spent about a week reading this thread from the beginning. All 99 pages!! And wow, you gals are great. I am a curvy, chunky chic too. My wedding is Dec 3, 2011 and I got engaged in April this year. I have been saying since April that I will get serious and lose weight fast and well, you know how that goes, right?! I've lost like 4 pounds since then. I don't want to go try on dresses, thinking that I will feel miserable about myself. I am currently wearing street clothes about size 18W-20W. The beginning of this year, I was at the heaviest weight I've ever weighed on the scale, which I realized when I couldn't even zipper up my fat jeans. Since Jan, I am down 28 pounds, but I haven't lost much lately. Reading this thread has put some perspective on loving myself as is. And I do for the most part. I just hate seeing myself in photos. I relate to all that you guys talk about. back-crack, chub rub, you name it, i've suffered it too! So glad to have found my chubby sisters! Hope some of you are still around here!