Hartyt509

Oh I sooo know where you are coming from. Unfortunately for me FMIL and her new hubby are going lmao We've had the same thing from my family AND his friends and my response has been "oh shame you can't make it!" We discussed a DW years ago and FMIL said (oh I remember lol) "now don't leave it too long because ** is getting on!!" I asked who that was and she said her brother!! I mean by this point i'd been with FI 3 years and never met him lmao My response "he isn't invited" that killed the convo lmao She has been told in no uncertain terms to back off or i'll rip her head off - FI made me promise not to talk to her about it lmao So my advice, say "shame" then promptly extend your right hand fold back your thumb and 3 fingers leaving the middle finger upright and shove it right up lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by SIMBASIM Let me just say...she is lucky it wasn't me! LOL!!! I can be one mean bitch! Mean isn't the word lol I have been called mental a good few times lol I'd have smacked her up and down the dance floor lol

If you are going to do it I wouldn't tell anyone. People can be funny in the wrong way! I would love go get married here before we go it would save a fortune but no way will FI do it!! My lot wouldn't care but it would just give FMIL something else to bitch about and something more for me to hate her for lol

Your pics are lush more so because you 2 have the biggest grins lol

He is sooo cute lol

All I can say is thank god I haven't got Gabby because if she shrugs and walks away from me, wedding day or not i'll get hold of her, quickly followed by the rest of my lot lol I'm glad it was lovely tho x

Quote: Originally Posted by samanthag Hmmmmm I wonder how they will explain these photos to the kids? Easy lol now this was when mummy and daddy got married. Unfortunately mummy's tits were blown up too much by the surgeon lmao Or for the other ones now mummy was tripping on acid on this one lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by cendcar You guys are so right....I should tell her why. Especially since I heard that her last best friend just stopped talking to her and she has no idea why. Okay how should I do it....call her on the phone, have dinner with her? I am such a chicken shit but I have to do this. Hartyt509---I wish I had your guts! Thanks all! I'd say lunch somewhere public so that she won't act like an arse and you can escape lol My dad says its not guts its having a big gob and a hard fist to back it up Trust me its a burden gets me into all kinds of shit lol

Quote: Originally Posted by Amarillis Yeh, we usually talk on a regular basis, at a minimum, weekly via email.... but generally via email on an every other day basis. FBIL/BM is away on training for work right now, and usually this is the time where I'll hear a lot from her... b/c she is alone. But that hasn't been the case. Sounds like a guilty mind to me lol look at it this way you won't have to bother with her and thats a few $$ saved at xmas and bdays lmao

If you are going to ditch her you need to tell her straight and why. Its not very fair to just ignore her phone calls and she's probably going to go round the twist wondering why or if you are hurt or something. If you have the backbone to ditch her have it to tell her why. You wouldn't like it if someone did it to you. I'm not getting at you and to be fair i'd have probably told her a long long time ago lol Thing is you have to be the better person and ignoring her is just mean and i'm sure you aren't. Just say look i'm not going to the gig i don't even like the band and if i'm being honest I can't even see why we are friends anymore. I don't mind being there for you in tough times but its all you seem to have and you are driving me nuts lol Do it in a public place so you can escape 2 lol

Quote: Originally Posted by ikupoo My jaw just dropped to the floor. Let me bend over and pick it up! Sex slavery in poor country is something that REALLY bothers the hell out of me, and I don't want to visit Thailand for that particular reason. I would cry my eyes out if I see an old man with an 8 year old! I'm sorry that your father in law has to attend the wedding. I wish it were simple enough to cut all ties with him. Don't be hurt by not getting any recognition from that creep, it's probably for the better. Ych! I think I have to shower now. I feel dirty. My prayers are with you! I know where you are coming from but you are missing out on a beautiful country by not going. I have been lots of times and have never seen any old man with an 8 year old unless they are related. Also not everyone that goes there goes for that - a lot do - too many in my opinion but not everyone. My dad lives in Bali and there is no way in hell he falls into that category, most of them that do are german believe it or not!

Quote: Originally Posted by townie princess OMG that would be too funny if Harty suddenly showed up in the parking lot! Nothing is impossible lol

Ana your brother looks sooo like one of my best mates lol maybe there are doubles in the world lol

As much as his dad is a complete twat there is no point in FI going off on him because it will egg him on unfortunately. I know you are angry and have every right to be but let it go, if you make a big deal out of it FI will not tell you anything in fear of you kicking off, I know because I have a deal with my FI. Don't tell me about your arse of a mother then I have no ammo lol However he wouldn't be coming to my wedding if I hated him, saying that FMIL is at mine!! You have to have faith in your FI and accept his dad is a cock (sorry if that offends anyone lol), take a deep breath and ignore his ass when you see him.

I'd be giving her the ride from hell lol get out and say now that is driving like im in the Indy 500 you stupid arse lol I'd also tell her that you've kept all the abusive emails and are passing them to HR as it is bullying lmao she'd crap herself haha

Hate ironing

I agree with Becks but i'd probably be a bit more direct lol How about whatever you want i'm not telling my guests what to wear that would be soo rude lol

You're welcome lmao funny thing is FI calls her new hubby "the Old Fossil" lmao no love lost with that lot I tell ya lol

Quote: Originally Posted by kate.com what is "the hell beast?" Harty you crack me up with your phrases. You are FEARCE! Lol FMIL Depending on my mood she has several different names none of which are pleasant lol

I live about 90 mins from Scotland! There are loads of castles or big stately homes but they book mega fast and i mean fast lol one of my friend's daughters tried to book one for next year and she's been told the earliest is 2010!! Also it will be bloody freezing and probably raining and snowing lol If you need any ideas give me a shout like i said im not far from any of the big places

Do it I wish I could lol FI wants the hell beast there so no chance!! lucky lucky girl lol

Sounds like you had a fab time. How did you manage to get the honeymoon package 2 lmao

It happens with us a lot. A lot of that is because he is in the army so not home a lot but when he is home either he can't be bothered or its crap lol I've got to the stage now where i'm not bothered which is really unusual for me lol I told him if he didn't put out i'd find it somewhere that worked for a while siimply because he knows i would lol That isn't the answer but it doesn't have give you a boost when you need it lol I think you just need to talk to him and lay it on the line so to speak. It will work outx

My FI does it all the time and then he sulks lol He was so bad one weekend when his friend was up with him I turned to alcohol lol When he went back I rang him and gave it to him big style and told him to go apologise to his mate for acting like a spoiled arsehole. He thought I was exagerating but when he went to see her she said I don't know how she puts up with you, you are a miserable bastard lmao You are right tho Erin it is a military thing 2. FI is in the army and I'm sure he thinks I'm one of his privates! He told me to get out of his sight one day!! I said whoaaa there get out of my fucking house I think you'll find you don't own it lmao He's never done it since funny enough. He was warned I won't put up with this shit I've got rid of one hubby what is another lmao I have found that the totally ignoring them or doing the opposite to what he wants brings him round - play him at his own game.

I am doing nowt more lol This what I have done/got Booked date 15 May 2009 at Dreams Cancun Deposit down for wedding itself - 50% Deposit down for TTD - 50% Booked flights and hotel and deposit paid - balance due 2/3/09 Have wedding dress, jewelry Have both wedding rings Have ordered invitations What I need to do: Buy shoes Buy makeup Decide on hair What FI needs to do : Get the rest of his outfit Keep his fecking mother in line