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LMAO -now you see I just dream of the beach I skip over the wedding bit lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by Oscar_Ernie Perhaps this is TMI, but what about when you start sweating? Especially on an important day, I'm sure I won't be all fresh and clean all day long. Can you imagine walking down the aisle, and, oops! lost my pretend underware! LOL!!! LMFAO it would be like when you got mashed in a pub, went to the loo and came out with something horrible stuck to your shoe but you were so drunk you didn't notice lmfao

Where abouts in Yorkshire are you from - thats where FI is from and I don't live too far away lol Well personally I'd have grabbed her in the toilets and have given her a hiding and she'd be off the list but hey that is me and I am a mackem lol Seriously tho I'd just say look I heard what you said so taking your feelings into account I won't expect to see you. That'll wipe the smile off her face

Oooo I want one of FMIL I'd love to stick a knife in that and NOT get arrested lmao

They're all nutjobs lol

only thing i can suggest is go round the stores and lie on them. I bought a memory foam one,a good make, and i've ended up at an osteopath its killed me. I've gone back to a knackered one just until we can afford to get another new one!

I had the same problem. We picked a hotel that was ok for kids, because FI's BM has 3. So we picked dreams even thought I wouldn't have been my choice. Guest what they said it was 2 expensive so wouldn't be staying there lol!!! Luckily FI told them specifically if you don't stay there we aren't paying for your day pass and that is going to be another $250. We have told everyone that we will NOT be responsible for the day passes and everyone has said fine. If you make it clear its their choice.

This probably won't come as a surprise from me but lol I'd just speak to FI and say look its obvious she doesn't want to come and she is creating drama so I say she doesn't get involved as its only going to ruin the day. Then poiltely tell her to shove her opinions up her arse and say you're off the guest list. Life is hard enough without someone shoving their beliefs down your throat.

Try some stuff called fuciderm i think its spelt like that. Its great for hot spots and its not really expensive. Not sure if you can get it over the counter tho. It might sound strange but I used green tea ointment on meg and it worked great - try that its cheap and if it doesn't work won't do any harm

Lmao that is great lol Slimy or not nice to know you still got it lmao Its funny about the ring tho I was out with one of my m8s years ago and i said why you wearing a ring - she said it pulls the blokes and I tell you what it did lmao

Happy wedding day - megs sends megga kisses lol

I was told they would translate them at the hotel for $50 each - ask them if they can recommend someone

If it was slanderous they'd have sent you a lawyer's letter the arses - lesson learned to keep everything tho

Oh I have soooo many lol Thing is not sure i qualify for this thread as my lingo is totally different to yours anyway lol BTW we say "eh" all the time lol

See its different over hear we don't really do the tipping unless its a taxi driver lol I'm not tipping unless she pulls her finger out and actually does something for us - so i'm holding off on that one but I know for sure i'm not giving her 20% we just couldn't afford to

If you're wearing white I'd just ask her not to wear it. For me it wouldn't matter because i'm wearing black lol It is gonna look really weird tho if you are both in white.

Quote: Originally Posted by Kat81 Thanks! I had a great day today but I am not done packing! YUCK! I feel your pain I hate packing lol FI always makes me do it days in advance!! grr lol

Quote: Originally Posted by Kat81 Early Thursday morning!!! In case I miss you with the time difference - I hope it goes fab xxx

We've just had to save everything, sorry I should say I'VE had to save everything lmao Our biggest expense is the hotel and airfaire. Because we are so far away we can't just go for a week so its costing us double the cost of the wedding just for the airfare and hotel stay. I have got most of it but what i don't have will go on a credit card and i'll transfer it to a o% one after that to pay it off. We aren't getting help off anyone either so its all down to us - but we decided to get married so its only fair

Quote: Originally Posted by Dez921714 Just remember...the BDW girls got your back! Too right and if she gets out of hand i'll come over and chin her for you lol

Quote: Originally Posted by Amarillis Harty, you definately have a good point. I should be honest - I don't LOVE showers either, I have been known to get out of them too... I think we are all guilty of that.... but, I know HANDS DOWN... that I would be on the "beast" list, if I were to skip a shower for one of my SIL's be it for a bridal, baby, or whatever. I know I'd get flack. Unfortunately people are generally arses i've found however a select few are total twats and they seem to the be ones i attract lmao Stick up for yourself they'll stop pissing you about it works for me - I had to stop speaking to my best mate for 3 months before she finally realised she was being a cow and now its fine. I'm really lucky in a way because I refuse to have anything to do with his family and as he's in the army and we live miles away from his lot we can usually get out of stuff lol funny thing FI can't stand them either lmao I always blame the dogs ha ha ha thats how I got out of FMIL's LAST wedding

I'm late to it too but i'd have done roughly the same as you lol I have in-laws very similar only diff is they wouldn't bloody dare do it to be because they know FI can't control what I say or do and that i'd tell them straight lol hence why I haven't spoken to his mother for ooo 8 months lmao Our wedding will be interesting cause i'm not talking to the evil witch there either and if she asks me why I'll tell her lmao If your FI has written them off just cut them off and don't have anything to with them and when they contact you tell them to poke off - unfortunately its a fact of life that some people are just oxygen theifs lol

Ok I'm gonna stick my oar in lol I'd ask her if she was ill on sunday with her getting back from camping so early lmao Then watch her squirm lol As for upsetting the family tough!! You can't spend your life not confronting things in case it upsets the family that is not healthy and will bite you in the arse later. I hate showers myself and I always decline but at least I have the decency to say i'm not going and everyone knows its not my thing and if I am being sneaky I stay out of the way of being seen lol

Quote: Originally Posted by JODEY I'm appserlutly gutted !! I've just spoken to the tutor of the course I want to enroll on and he tells me its been full for some time when I'd been told there were places available. How pissed am I !! If I was to start the course this year it would take me 3 yrs before I'm qualified ( I would be 28 ) I would now have to wait another year and I've got trying for a baby to think about, I don't want to leave it too late. To me 29 yrs is pushing it, I know women have children later than that and thats fab but what if it takes a long time ?..... What do you guys think I should do stay in my job untill we decide to have children in maybe 1 or 2 years time and use the maternity leave or try to get on the course next year leving trying for children untill I'm 29 ?? ..... I'm all confused !! It depends on how much you want it as to whether you are prepared to wait and make a decision that you wouldn't have kids while training. Whats to say you didn't accidentally get pregnant. Not everything in life is clear cut. You need to decide whats important to you and just relax - you still have a job even though you aren't happy in it. Whats to say there aren't better courses with better jobs out there - look about. Unless you have your heart set on it and will give everything up for it then keep looking. The best things in life happen without warning. Glad to hear 29 is pushing it for kids i won't be trying until i'm 37 lmao thats me screwed lmao

Honestly don't worry - my friend's baby used to kick the crap out of her on a night or when he heard his dad come in from work lol They even said he was too small a couple of weeks ago! she had him yesterday and he was 8lbs 10 lmao