I had some friends constantly talking about how they are coming, can't wait to go, looking to book, etc....and then came up w/ weird excuses like Jamaica isn't safe. 1 week later...they are booking their own vacation to Jamaica! WTH. If you don't want to come, I don't care; just don't go rambling on and on about how you are and then quickly change your mind! On the other hand, we also have friends who said they would come when we mentioned it, but haven't mentioned the STD received or wedding at all. Oh well!