Hi wife2B and jamie0820 - it's all going to be ok. Just go with the flow - and have a great time. I know my wedding is still 4 months away but from every review I've read, it will work out. Everyone is different when it comes to levels of service, and the resorts will not be able to please all people at all times. I've read just as many good reveiws as bad reviews on the trip sites, the best you can do is plan to deal with things if they pop up. So pack extra immodium or pepto for upset stomachs, tell your guests to use their safes and not bring too much cash. You can always cancel credit cards if they get stolen. Also - everyone going is an adult, they decided to come and spend this week with all of us, it's not our duty to make sure they have a good time, but to thank them for coming to spend this special day with us. Please though, write back and tell me about your bouquets - did you get to pick them before you get there? Just wondering, I am at the planning stage you both were 4 months ago hahaha