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Quote: Originally Posted by Jenn79 This one would be great.

Oh man, I gotta go shopping. Where did you girls buy all your lingerie from?

I think you should meet him before you make any decisions. If she really didn't love her last husband it may not seem to her that she is rushing into anything, she probably was not really invested in the relationship and felt like it was over a long time before the actual divorce. YOu have a right to be upset because she took this man out of your life as well, but if she is really interested in a relationship with this new guy you shoudl at least give him a chance, you never know, he just might be a great guy. As for the wedding, meet him before and make a decision, that way if he does come there won't be that awkward first meeting feeling.

I am the same way, I can be excited and happy without jumping around and screaming. Don't mind her, you don't have to act a certain way, you don't have to act at all. Just be happy in your way and enjoy this time in your life.

It is up to you, some people want to keep their bouquet so they will get an extra one to toss. If you aren't looking to keep it go right ahead and toss it.

Don't worry too much about it. If you do have to move it inside I have heard they docorate it beautifully for you.

It sounds like one of those TA registries gone wrong. You know the thing where you set up an account with the TA for people who want to give you a gift, they can just give them any amount and they give it to you after. But this seems totally off, it is like forcing your guests to give you a gift which is completely wrong. If they want to give you a gift of their own free will that is great and really appreciated but it is wrong to force someone to give you a gift.

Quote: Originally Posted by Jacilynda I hate to say it, but I feel like he invited you like he was obligated to and knew that you never could come so didn't really plan on you coming. Kind of just putting up a front. Its a very two-faced situation! I completely agree with this, just what I was thinking. It seems very sneeky that he suddenly realized that you are not invited when you said you would go. It makes me wonder what is really going on at this "dinner" that you can't be around for. You definately need to talk to him about this and figure out the real issue. It is complete crap that he would be embarrassed of the woman he loves. When a guy falls in love he usually wants to show off the amazing woman he found. Never let him make you feel like you aren't good enough to go out with him, he is lucky to have you and the wonderful family you have given him.

What a great deal. I think the iridescence will look great with the sun and water.

32DD here, Thanks for all the great suggestions.

They look great, love the colors. Very pretty!

I tried the Aquafresh trays and they destroyed my gums near my teeth, they got all white and started to fall off like they were burnt. It was painful. I didn't get that with Crest Whitestrips and they worked ok.

I really like the first one. You look great in it.

They look great. Your FI is going to LOVE them.

LOL Nikki, that is so something I would do I do so many stupid things a day I make a point to forget them after they happen otherwise I would feel really bad

I wouldn't tell FI that he isn't "alowed" to go (I'm not his mother) but I would tell him I don't think it is a good idea. I would let him know why it concerns me and that I would prefer he do something fun at the resort. I wouldn't expect him to just sit around all day doing nothing but waiting for the wedding, I would like him to be on the resort though so he can be found if he is needed for something.

Very pretty, you look great. Congrats on finding a dress you love!

You are not crazy, tell him to do it the day before or the day after if he has to but not the day of. I'm sure there will be plenty of things that need to be taken care of on your wedding day and you should not be left to worry about that alone while he is off fishing. Yes you are there for a vacation but the wedding day is not a vacation day, it is your wedding day and if it is not wedding related it can be done on a different day.

That is great!

Great pics, your FI will love them!

Quote: Originally Posted by Soon2beWed09 Anyway some people think Im living in a fantasy world since I have no ring and planning a wedding... Lol. I went to try on dresses about a month ago and my ring was being sized so I didn't have it on and I heard one of the girls say "is she even getting married?" Whatever, I know what's going on and that's all that matters.

FI and I talked about getting married, he gave me a ring but didn't ask me to marry him, then one day he just stopped me and said "will you marry me?". I kinda looked at him funny but I guess he didn't really ask before so he was just making sure I understood. Lol. I told him of course, I'm wearing the ring. Anywho, when he gives you a ring, if he doesn't ask you, you shoud remind him just to make sure. Lol.

The date of our legal marriage is the anniversary of the day he proposed and our wedding will be on the anniversary of the day we "officially" became a couple. We didn't purposely do this it just happened that we picked a month to do it and it happened to be the same month as those things so we picked those dates.

Welcome and good luck planning!

I will wear my Ering first then then wedding band, I figure I got the Ering first so it should go on first. I'm into the whole chronological order thing.