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  1. Hello Ladies~ I have a beautiful white gown size 6 that I purchased, but I have found one I love more (Yes I've become that bride:) It is a mermaid style gown. It has a glitter design down the front with a layered tulle bottom. There are white and silver beads along the top of the skirt. It is strapless and has a low back. I paid $550 at a boutique in Chicago while on vacation. I does not have the tags, but I only wore it to try it on. I will consider any reasonable offer. I'm not exactly sure how to post pictures, sorry new and not very computer savvy LOL, but if you would like to pm me
  2. I did buy my dress online, actually so far I've bought two. And now I'm looking for a third I went by the measurements that they said, but the gowns never fit, not even close. And to have them tailored will cost me upwards of $500. So I am starting back at square one. I am going to start looking at prom dresses, alot come in white and they're not your traditional wedding dress. I'm sure some women have had good luck online...just not meLOL My FI is going to wear linen pants and a dress shirt. He originally thought he'd wear a suit, but we think it will just be too hot and he doesn't want to b
  3. Quote: Originally Posted by McToasty hey babe, i just wanted to share a quotation that i absolutely love, and encapsulates what i want, and am so glad i found, in a relationship. a few years ago i stayed in this crappy relationship for much longer than i should have. he made me feel like i could never match up to the girls around him, that i didn't treat him well enough, and just.. not good! in the end, i realized that it doesn't matter how much i cared about him. i needed a relationship that wasn't just based on a one-sided love, but one that was reciprocated and based on trust, c
  4. I appreciate everyone's support, concern, and advice. And I know that a lot of what you are saying is 100% correct. I can't remember who said that I will never forget that he said he was embarrassed of me, you are right. It has kind of just stuck in my head. I won't forget it, but I will try to forgive. Why he said it, honestly I don't know. He says he said it out of anger in the middle of an argument, but that still doesn't make it ok. I do love him and I believe that for all the wonderful things that we have in our relationship that he does deserve a second chance. And that is what I'm tryin
  5. Ladies Thank you so much for all of your advice, encouragement and support. I guess I should have clarified a few things. What I meant by saying that things would change after we were married is that the company he works for is large so for most events you can only bring someone if you are married. And now that we're engaged I thought it would be different in regards to that. But either way, I was really hurt by everything that happened and was really surprised when everything blew up the way it did, because I didn't see it coming. I spoke to him a little yesterday. He came home during
  6. Really I'm not sure. He invited me to a dinner with him and his colleges (which for the most part I can't go because of babysitter reasons, honestly I've never been to go in the 3 years he has been with the company) but today I could. As soon as I said I could he stumbled around and said he would have to call me back. When he did he said sorry he was mistaken, I was no longer invited. Each time it always is like this. I was hurt because a few months ago he said he was embarrassed of me. When we decided to get married he said things would be different, but there not. When he uninvited me my fee
  7. I don't even know what to write. We have an amazing relationship. We got into a small argument about his work(which he lied about), and he told me to give him his ring back. He said it more then once, so I had to. This is the one thing we said we would never do. I feel like I'm dying inside. I don't know what to do or where to turn. I'm sorry for posting such a negative post but I'm so lost right now. Our wedding is already planned and payed for. And I don't know where to go next. As silly as it sounds I don't even know who I am without him....Thanks for listening, and its not just as easy as
  8. I'm so glad i found this I am also a 32DD/DDD Any suggestions on a backless/strapless bra that minimizes? My dress is also strapless with a low back and everything I've tried really pushes me up. I would like to be a bit more conservative on my wedding day. While there is no hiding the fact that I'm busty, I don't think this is the place to really show my sex appeal LOL!!! Also a few of the bras I have tried kind of show through my mermaid gown, any suggestions? TIA~~~
  9. Welcome from one newbie to another! I am getting married at Breezes Runaway Bay. Not too far from Ocho Rios. Are you looking for a resort or just a wedding venue? Good Luck and Happy planning!!!
  10. Welcome! I'm also a Jamaican Bride, but different resort. Good Luck and happy planning
  11. Quote: Originally Posted by yoAzul We finally decided! FI's mom will be reading this: Union by Robert Fulghum You have known each other from the first glance of acquaintance to this point of commitment. At some point, you decided to marry. From that moment of yes to this moment of yes, indeed, you have been making promises and agreements in an informal way. All those conversations that were held riding in a car or over a meal or during long walks - all those sentences that began with “When we’re married†and continued with “I will and you will and we willâ€- those late
  12. Ok well I'm really having a hard time planning this whole AHR thing We are paying for everything, so I need to keep the budget down. For those of you who planned smaller parties, how did you limit the guest list without hurting anyone's feelings? And when did you send out the invites if you had a delayed reception?
  13. Well I too am going to go against the norm here and say no it's not selfish. First and foremost this is the one and only time that it's about you and your FI. you should do what your heart desires. You could do something special before or after with him. I am a mom of 5 and I will not be taking our children with us. I'm like the OP, no one else is going except us, so I don't feel as though we will be excluding our kids. We will have a small ahr when we return. We are making them a big part of that, and really that's what my kids are most excited about anyway You can look at things from both s
  14. 1: What is your current job, and if you had to switch careers, what would the other career be? I'm a mom and I wouldn't change it for the world 2: What is your favorite hobby? Cooking 3: What is your favorite holiday, and why? I like all of them...I'm a total dork! 4: What is your greatest achievement? being a mom 5: What is your favorite animal... and why? dog, I love my Baxter 6: What is your dream trip? I can't wait for my wedding in Jamaica 7: What is your fav food? Lamb chops...yum 8: Who has made the biggest impact in your life?
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