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I am so glad you had such an amazing time. Congrats MRS!!!

good stuff! i just wish they not drag it out so!! I do hate the nick back and forth stuff!

Wow--good to know we share the same struggles in one sense but so unfortunate as well. I would nip that spending on FI mom in the bud. Its tight times right now, and a tv and laptop are not cheap items. Does she not work or something?

Own the fact that you have a lot on your plate. Focus and set reasonable goals, attainable ones. Plug away at each one pacing yourself and try not to stress too much. I wish you well.

There is a thread already for this. Have you also downloaded the PDF files from the website? It has the info for free/classic, etc. I do believe if not mistaken that it is a maximum of 50 people or something like that.

you started off by asking other folks what their opinion is. People tend ot forget that a wedding is about the bride and groom. Know that DW comes with much heartache and drama because it automatically limits some people due to finance, disability, etc. If your budget does not dictate an at home ceremony, then you and FI need to decide and stand by your plan. If you can afford it and can compromise by having it home, why not?

I am with Jilue G--- the chipmunk cult following sux, Amber makes the same dumb decisions (kevin too), Neil and Lauren are underutilized as well as Devon. These new characters come on board, WTF? I am getting so impatient with the whole Phyllis /Nick dance! Uggh frustrating...

I wouldnt bother too much about it! I am sure she will be around long enough to cause more drama so send the invite and ensure you address it to her and her b/f. At the end of the day she more than likely wont show but at least she cannot throw not having an invite in your face later.

WOW---Reckless, dishonesty, no communication, financial jeopardy and ruin, these are HUGE issues. Mind you, I always like to take emotions from the situation and be logical , but I am coming up with nothing good from this situation. Granted the worst things is for a man not to be able to bring in his share, but ESPECIALLY not having a job, why would he evn go to Vegas or spend the money, even if he thought he could double it That is a colossal risk when you have nothing! So if the mortgage, rent or some other bill was due, when does common sense kick in that the consequences of doing something so hugely wrong on all levels will leave you homeless? OMG, my heart aches for you and I hope you can see through the rose colored glasses no meaness intended at all! Yes we make mistakes so I hope he is able to get the money if staying with him is the right decision. Wow....saying a prayer for you that all things will come to light in the few short weeks you both have left and the right decision for your future is made.

congratulations! we cannot wait for pics and review!

a good nights rest usually puts things in perspective. were you able to sleep and how are you feeling now? just try to tackle one major item at a time okay.

Hey Gorgeous..U will be a beautiful bride and everything will fall into place Des! Wishing you a fab time in Mexico and can't wait to see the pics... Big Hugs!

wow--fun stuff.

I totally agree..Its a rush and roulette experience!

No need to go to a courthouse. WHy spend th eextra fees? A marriage in Jamacia,legal and specified as such is also legal in the US.

these are great

I think th girls have given great advice. Just wanted to wish you well!!

I cannot even begin to imagine. what are they teling you about fixing it and picking up costs if not fixed correctly?

I usually tip between 15% and 20%.

no you are perfectly normal and trust if you were Sam.you would not be dreaming of sand between your toes! Good luck with everything! Hugs!

not at all..i think it looked great in photo opps...

That is correct. I would also recommend requesting and confirming your dinner ceremony for 6:30. Some brides neglected to do so and if booked already you will have to wait until 9pm unless that works for you.

this is all in one workout??!!

I love anything by Nora Roberts and Sandra Brown -- they are fiction, mystery romance, drama.

cute story.... i hope they have staying power as they are moving super fast!!