Quote: Originally Posted by starchild That's so true and the best advice you can get...although I know it doesn't help you feel a whole lot better now ( I went through it, although we wanted a tiny wedding so I wasn't mad about that, but irked that people who "should" have gone either said no or bailed at the last minute.
This is a golden opportunity to filter out those who have your back from those who don't. I promise you that these no-shows won't cross your mind when you're at your dream wedding. It really is their loss and you may just eliminate some excess relationships that aren't as true as you thought they were. Sad to say it, but that is the bright side to all this. It was for us.
I'm sorry you are down, it will pass though. Best wishes ) Very well said Jamy. I'll just piggyback off your response and say Ditto. lol Defitenly about the excess relationships. Over these past couple of months (not just based on attending the wedding), but I am surely finding out some people come into your life for a reason, season, or lifetime.