Quote: Originally Posted by Lady_Di No, you are not wrong for this!
If your FI doesn't care for her then it shouldn't be a problem.
You don't HAVE to invite everyone.
Is she the type to go uninvited? I hope not!! We exchanged heated words after she called my cell phone unexpectedly. She kinda has a substance abuse problem and before I knew what was happening I called her a drunken whore.. so mean I know, but it was in the heat of the moment. She sent me a text after I hung up on her saying "I will be sure to come to your wedding drunk" WOW, I literally laughed out loud on that one If that skank shows up I will have he escorted off the property. Unless she just shows up for the ceremony, then I will kindly ignore her, I wouldnt give her the satisfaction to show how upset I am.
do people travel all the way to Mexico to crash weddings?!?
ISLANDBRIDE....I really like you, we could definitely go out for drinks if we lived near each other LOL. Great comment! A lady after my own heart.
Actually ladies I really appreciated ALL of the comments. Thanks so much for reassuring me that I am not being an uptight bridezilla. She makes my blood curl.. my FI has a bond with her sons (their father is "away" for 22 years!!) so he has really stepped in and shows them that they still have a male figure in their lives so that they don't stray. This psycho b*tch threatened that they will NEVER be allowed around him as long as I am in the picture.. and that the 17 yr old can't be his bestman, unless he finds another bride..so sad that she wouldn't put her sons feelings before hers.
Thanks for letting me vent