TAHOEJENI

What a wonderful life you have had together. My only living grandparent is my grandma on my mother's side. My family does not have warm fuzzy relationships, in fact, my mother and I might talk twice a year (and not because we fight). My grandmother has never been anything but a "hi, how are you doing" type relationship and conversation is awkward at all family functions since my relatives are so socially dysfunctional. I am always jealous of women like you that have had such wonderful relationships with the other strong women in your families. Hang on to all the wonderful memories you have had over the years. You are a very very lucky person! Hugs.

How awesome. Congrats!

Holy crazy awesomeness!!!

I think me and the FI are going to start a new tradition of doing the Turkey Trot 5k here so we can feel less guilty later.... Congrats!

Wow - so exciting that everyone wants to share the day with you. I know it wasn't expected, but you must really be loved. :-) This just reinforces the fact that I'm doing an "A" invite list and a "B" invite list. As people on the A list decline, I'll add the appropriate amount of B people....

Wow - so exciting that everyone wants to share the day with you. I know it wasn't expected, but you must really be loved. :-) This just reinforces the fact that I'm doing an "A" invite list and a "B" invite list. As people on the A list decline, I'll add the appropriate amount of B people....

Holy Crap - this totally screams DO OVER!!!!!!!!!

Quote: Originally Posted by Andi Ok, here are mine! I couldn't decide on one so I have a couple This is my mom after a tequila shot! she hates this pic but I think it is just so funny! Oh Andi - this makes me giggle! Tell your mom she rocks!

How totally awesome. Sounds fun too.

I'm looking for the wording that you all used for the "longer" version of the STD. Not something short and cute you would put on a magnet or postcard but the wording that suggests - hey, we're sending these out now so you can give us a tentative heads up/feedback if you're planning on coming so we can plan the logistics of the big day - sort of thing.... Anyone? I'm budgeting for 40 people and while I understand things can change in 12 months, I'd like to know who on the "B" list I can bump up to the "A" list, etc. Our wedding is in Northern Michigan and while it's only 9 hours drive time from where we live, I'd like to give some of those "B" list invitees the ability to move up if a spot opens so they can lock in the good hotel rates..... Jeni

Quote: Originally Posted by adelaide Puppies are definitely hard. I totally understand what you are feeling! one really good tip that our puppy trainer gave us was to actually leash the puppy inside the house - here's the catch...tie the leash to your belt. This way you are forced to notice things that you wouldn't necessarily notice if the dog was loose in the house. They key is to watch for signals that the dog needs to go out and then catch her before she makes a mistake. It really worked well for us. Good luck! Leash/House arrest is a great idea. Listen to what Tammy B has to say too. I am in rescue also and have had dozens of dogs through my house for rehab/bootcamp. Have you talked to your breeder? If you bought from someone reputable they will have a life long relationship with you and will mentor you through the hard times. If you bought from someone less reputable or from a puppy mill you might be dealing with a pup that doesn't realize he's not supposed to go inside. He might have spend a significant amount in his crate with no potty breaks and it hasn't clicked yet. When he does his duty outside you need to throw a party for him. Immediately. Get really excited, give him treats, etc right then. Establish a routine and stick to it. Limit his water intake and feed him (not free feed) at set times. That way you will be able to have a good idea when to expect his potty habits. Good luck and give him time. Breed rescue and breed organizations can help too. Jeni

Woo Hoo! Glad the little guy was found. The furkids say thanks for volunteering with rescue. Jeni - Louisville Weimaraner Rescue

Hmmm, I don't think so. (does that count as a no?) Would you ever run naked down the street (in the daytime) for a million bucks?

Denise Richards - for like ten years.

Geoff doesn't dress up so that would be a no. I will probably dress the furkids though.

Is there any posts here (that I haven't found) with creative wording on the STD do at least get a tentative number for planning purposes? Surely, there's got to be something. It's frustrating to spend so much time and energy on the STD's and RSVP's for them not to be valued by the people that get them.

I'm jealous that you have everyone booked (well except for flowers) Way to go! Jeni

Shortcake - there's got to be meaning behind that one! Jeni

Ug, totally not looking forward to this aspect!

Can you talk to her about him? I'm getting ready to tell a good friend that she's making some stupid man choices. She was married for 15 years and her husband told her he was leaving 4th of July. She's terrified of being alone (other than their three kids) and is already seeing someone. From the outside, it looks way unhealthy.

Hang in there. The only one I've had some issues with is my sister. She is fine with my destination wedding but keeps trying to make everything super more expensive! No, we don't need that. No, we decided against that. No, that's not us. Etc.

Sorry to hear the news. Don't hang it all up just yet. Things could work out for the better soon.

Ug, sounds like a nightmare. I lost my SS card a long time ago and am nervous to go try and get a replacement but my dilemma is not nearly as complicated as yours!

Like your FI, I think they look like sand. Your guests will be impressed!

Loved the wording on the letter. I'm getting ready to do my STD's and was unsure of how to word them to ensure a quick preliminary head count for easier planning.