My FSIL got married at DW at the Beach Palace last October, FI proposed in December and ever since Cancun we'd been talking about having a DW of our own. I honestly probably would have never thought of it until I experienced it. The cost is a consideration but I really want to spend time with the people at my wedding. I don't want to see them for 5 minutes and then be rushed around saying hi to the other 100 people for 5 minutes. I want my wedding to celebrate the love FI and I have for each other with the people whom we love most in the world. I was nervous because I have 7 people total in my family, my dad and my brothers family. I know that my brothers fam 4 kids + wife probably wouldn't be able to go and that makes me sad and I shed some tears about it but there are people whom I thought wouldn't go FI's Aunts and Uncles and that means so much. However, FI's dad and his fiance aren't going because it's not really their type of vacation. Because really it's all about them. I am so glad that your FI's parents were happy for you, that is so important. I also agree expectations suck, I expected FI's dad to not go, but it still really hurt to hear him say it. You will have an amazing time, there really is no experience like a DW. Enjoy every minute