So glad I found this thread. My father is extremely well off but extremely selfish and cheap! He has a townhouse in the neighborhood I want to live in that he rents out so I plan on having him come up to visit me for the day so we can have a "talk". My plan is to present him with three options: He signs over the townhouse out right and I pay for the wedding myself, he lets me move in there and cover the mortgage and help with a flat amount or he doesn't let me move and he pays for EVERYTHING!! LOL! Â Just need to work on how I will present this to him...