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Both are beautiful!! I love the back of the 1st one.. but you look SO happy in the 2nd one. =)

I was wondering the same thing!! Very good question.. I like Stacy's suggestion; do it normal but with waterproof makeup!

Quote: Originally Posted by FoxyBride Make-up artists use both MAC and MUFE frequently because they do hold up well. I'd suggest getting your face done at a MAC counter or at Sephora with MUFE (you usually just have to purchase something) and seeing how you like it. I agree!! I have heard amazing things about both.. I am actually planning on doing what 'Foxy' said and going to Sephora for trials of both!

So cute!!! Good choice on both the wedding gown and the 'party' dress!

Oh no!! I am sooo sorry! I actually loved that dress too when I saw it online. When I tried it on; WOW did it look different on my body!!! I agree with the other gals; post it on here, craigslist, preownedweddingdresses.com, ebay, etc... I am sure that you can sell it; it is suck a beautiful dress! As far as finding a dress; definetely try the department stores, Davids Bridal.. I am not sure what they have in Canada. Hang in there.. you will find a dress on time!

Thanks Ladies!! I am going back tomorrow with one of my BM's and another girlfriend to decide. Honestly, its the first dress I have tried on that just felt good! It's super lightweight silk and fits perfectly; I will not need to do any alterations. I think I love it.. I will try to get a picture tomorrow with my face in it; as I think it is good with my coloring too; so I can get all of your final opinion! And here is the best part.. the price at the Nicole Miller Store is $630 and if I buy it in the store rather that online; they will give me a 10% discount. For those of you who asked what it was.. It's a Nicole Miller OMBRE SUNSET STRETCH CHARMEUSE GOWN. OMBRE SUNSET STRETCH CHARMEUSE GOWN - Nicole Miller Official Store Shannon =)

I am sure you all have seen my posts about my uncertainty with finding a wedding gown. I haven't really like anything.. And have decided to the non-traditional route to see what's in store for me on that front! I just tried this one on today.. unfortunately I went by myself; so I need to go back with a friend. Please be totally honest ladies.. what do you think? Could I do better? I have to run to a meeting.. can't wait to hear what you all think!!! Shannon =)

Am I being unreasonable?? I asked one of my very close friends to be a BM in our wedding. At the time, she had just started dating a guy (after being single for long time), who honestly, none of us (our group of friends) really love. That being said, as long as she is happy; I am thrilled for her, my opinion really doesn't matter that much as long as he treats her well and she likes him. Now, whenever I try to plan something to go dress shopping or get together to do wedding stuff or even just to catch up and have a glass of wine she is almost always busy with him. He works a strange work schedule; so they try to spend every moment when he is not working together. But, I hardly ever see her anymore because she is always with him... They go to his country home on weekends (yes, he has a few 'country homes') - so weekends are totally out of the question most of the time because she will be 'away'. Weeknights are tough on all of us bc we all work a lot; but even then, she is with him most of the time. I am becoming increasingly frusterated with her. She is a good person and I know she is just excited about her relationship; but I am also feeling like she is ditching her friends. I have tried to tell her but she doesn't seem to be getting it. Am I just being a selfish bch and bridezilla because I want her to participate and spend time with the BP? Or even just get together with me to catch up?

I agree with the popular thought. Something doesn't sound right about this.. I would order it direct from the company.

I would ask your WC to verify. When I spoke to mine; she said that they had the equipment to hook up to an IPod if we chose to use one. Let me know what you end up doing... And pls let me know how it was and share your pics. I am dying to hear ppl's experiences there bc the tripadvisor reviews are sooo good and bad.

Wow! I am feeling like maybe I underestimated my budget now reading what everyone else is spending. I am projecting spending under $8000 total.

You have every right to feel the way that you do!! I completely understand.. My mother didn't come to my first wedding after I bought her dress, plane ticket and hotel room.... it was absolutely heartbreaking even though we weren't that close at the time (and don't even speak now). It's always so hard when parents don't act like parents should... so, you have to put yourself first and do what makes you feel better. If you feel better ignoring him and letting him 'stew' - then do it. If you feel better calling him and telling him exactly how hurt you are - then do it. Just remember, this is his loss; not yours. He is not participating in one of the most important day's of his only child's life and he will come to regret it (that I can assure you of). You, on the other hand, should not have any regrets. You invited him and asked his input while planning even though the two of you are not that close. You will be marrying the man of your dreams surrounded by people that love you and if he is being too selfish to make it; then that is his problem! Your wedding day will be perfect with our without him. I know it's easier said that done.. but hang in there!!!

I agree with KellyC.. I don't think that there is proper etiquette for a DW. That being said, traditional etiquette states that the brides family pays for the wedding (incl reception) and the groom's family pays for the rehearsal dinner. We are paying everything ourselves since our families are paying $$ just to come to the wedding. IMO, if you are unsure, you should sit down with FH's family and your own to discuss finances. That way everyone is clear and in agreement with who is paying for what...

I am so sorry!!! You are not being unreasonable at all. I am kind of the same with my sister. We are not very close; but my family insisted that I ask her to by MOH since I was hers (which was a disaster bc she was a TRUE BRIDEZILLA, but that is a story for another day). My sister decided that she is not even coming to the wedding after I asked her and made it a big deal with my family. So I completely understand where you are coming from; it was a huge drama and uneeded stress. IMO, this is what I would do... I would give yourself some time to calm down. Then I would talk to her either in person or on the phone; not on email or facebook. Tell her that you are hurt bc she would rather tile her floor than participate in preparing you for the most important day of your life. Don't accuse...just tell her how her actions made you feel. Then hear out what she has to say about why she didn't come any why she is so upset now. Then I would ask her if she really wants to be your MOH; tell her that you would love for her to be your MOH bc she is your sister - but understand if she doesn't feel like it is somethng that she can commit the time to doing. If all else fails and she is still being unreasonable; talk to your family and explain that you are going to ask her to not be your MOH because she is not willing to participate. Then tell her very graciously - thanks but no thanks. Then find someone who means a lot to you to take her place. Then grab onto FI, weather out the storm and have a drink! . Remember this is yours and FI's special day! Don't let anyone interfere with that!! Good luck!

Congrats!!! Can't wait to see pictures!!!

Very cute!!!

I agree with almost everyone else!! First of all, your engagement is not strange at all. You don't need a ring to profess your love and commitment at the moment you propose! Second, be honest with him and work it out together. My e-ring is something that I would have never-ever chosen myself; but it is FI's grandmother's ring and it means so much to me that his family wants me to have it! That being said, he knows what I like and when we have the $ for an anniversary; we are going to get me a right-hand ring of what I really wanted (which was a ruby ring). Third, if $ is an issue.. I agree with what a few ppl have said - get an amazing wedding band that you love. He can always get you an 'engagement ring' later in your lives togehter when you can afford your dream ring.

I agree .. def take some photos! The flesh tone looks dramatic and sexy; but it all depends upon the look that you want for your wedding! Either way, gorgeous dress. Can't wait to see pics of you in it!

Beautiful!!!!!!

It's beautiful.. can't wait to see it on you!

I know .. it's tough! My family initially had a hard time with it as well. My sister isn't coming at all; and believe me that caused a ton of drama (she thought that I was trying to exclude her and make her feel bad bc she couldn't afford to go supposedly). My Fmil was and still is not thrilled; and same as you, this is my 2nd wedding and his 1st. When you are giving ppl this much notice; there is no reason why they can't save up for it. Put away some $$ every month; in a year they should have more than enough. But, if they still insist that they cannot go; let them know that it is okay. That you wish they could be there, but understand that they cant. Promise them lots of pictures when you get back so you can share your day with them. If you aren't doing an AHR; then perhaps just invite over FI brother to look at pics with you two and have a toast. Personally, I am having my sister come to see me and she will stand up for me for our legal marraige; this way, she can feel like she has a special place in our ceremony even though she can't be at our wedding. Good luck and remember; this is both of your wedding! It is your vision and a celebration of your love. Cast the drama and guilt aside... enjoy your planning and your commitment to eachother, your way. After all, when all this wedding stuff is said and done; its the two of you who are married and are starting a beautiful life together. Start it the way you want and the people that love you will be happy for you.

I agree with everyone else; personally I like no. 1 better; but it depends on his taste.

Thank you so much everyone again!! I guess I am just feeling a bit frusterated and thinking that its my body that doesnt look good in the dresses! Im trying to plan a date to go with my bp again to look.

Congrats!!! It's absolutely beautiful and perfect for a DW! What a great price.. =) Cant wait to see it on you!

I am in NJ and would be interested in doing his in Feb. I was going to do it later; but for this price.. I can def do it earlier. Let me know as you get details!