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Quote: Originally Posted by Just Martha I'm sad.....I hit 20 weeks gestation yesterday and I still haven't felt the baby! My doc says it's still early and everyone is different and feels it at different stages. It just seems everyone I know has felt their baby move by this time. Could you have felt it but just not realised?

Mine isn't jealous, he's usually on his own computer downstairs, whilst i'm up in my bedroom on mine. We have all the computers networked, so even the children can go on in their own rooms and not bother me. Its only with the youngest that I sometimes get kicked off of my computer so she can play on barbie (she's too young to have her own interenet access).

I think it looks good with the sash, go for it!

We're only have 7 people (including us) in total. I'm not sure what we are doing yet but the ipod idea does sound good, also you could maybe have the trio to play for you, I don't think it would be weird at all. Its your wedding, if you want music, you have it.

Your dress looks lovely Abbie, you will look wonderful.

She does seem strange, most grandmothers can't wait to show off their grandchildren.

Well, she certainly looks comfortable in her car seat, I hope she passes. You pics are so cute.

Wow, that's quick, can't wait to see pics. I also got my dress from ebay (not as quick as yours) but am more than pleased with it.

That's a lovely pic, happy fathers day.

I bought my dress on ebay (i ended up with two for £150), they both look good but the first one wasn't quite what i wanted, requested so they made me another and I am totally in love with the second one. I have now had it shortened and it looks even better. I've been more than pleased. Here's the thread which shows both of my dresses http://bestdestinationwedding.com/forum/t19082 If you go to page 5, you can see both dresses.

I liked the second one, although it was hard as they both look wonderful on you.

Your pictures are wonderful, especially the one with the butterfly.

Everthing looks great. You will have a wonderful wedding.

Everything looks soooo good, have a great wedding

Everything looks wonderful, you will have a great wedding.

Wow, how exciting. I will keep my fingers crossed and if your on it, and it comes to the UK, I wll make sure I watch it.

The jewellery is very unique, I think its great. You will have to post a pic wearing it.

They are beautiful, very impressed.

I think its a wonderful idea, it isn't taking anything off of you and your husband. I'm afraind I don't know of any wording but do think its a good idea.

Have a wonderful time and a wonderful wedding and take lots and lots of pics.

Congrats Maura and Jammy in becoming the newest mods.

Just voted again, still in third place though.

I know it would be hard in the RV but couldn't you make a sort of road trip, stop at places of interest on the way, take pictures of Gwen in these places and then document your whole journey, have a map of your route, put some of this thread in it. You could call it something like 'Gwen's Homecoming'. When she is older and understands, she will realise how much she was loved by so many people, and it would be a great source of memories for years to come. I hope you figure something out and get that wonderful daughter of yours home safe and sound.

Quote: Originally Posted by Debs I booked my wedding with the WC of Ocean Blue directly once I booked my holiday and knew what day I wanted. Because I had contacted her so far in advance I was the first in line to choose the time when it came time for her to book with the officiant. Turned out we went with a symbolic anyway, so we had our first choice in time. The other wedding that day had to work around my schedule. This is how I did it too, I contacted the WC direct, we booked the holiday online so we don't have a travel agent, then I got in contact with WC myself to see if they had about 3 dates free, that I was considering and then just had the 10th July confirmed. I did this last August 07, for the wedding in July 08. I would try contacting direct.

So sorry that your going through all of this, especially sorry about the miscarriage. Everyone has given great advice, agree wholeheartedly with it. I know its hard but try not to let it get you down, good luck is waiting just round the corner.