That's exactly what I thought to. If I sent you an invitation it means I want you to be a part of my wedding. And it didn't matter where we decided to get married their would be flights,hotels, food, car rentals etc involved since we are both from different provinces. So a AI is much cheaper for everyone!
I don't understand why people do that? It's my wedding so I think I should be able to decide some options I almost feel that since they aren't coming to the DW they want me to do all the most expensive parts of a at home wedding ( free meal or everyone).
I'm so glad that people are being so supportive of your DW! It must make everything so much easier! I'm starting to think the reason I'm having so many opinions is because I'm the first one in the family who will not be having the traditional wedding