My bestfriend was the first problem I came across. She won't come to my wedding because we are having it in Mexico. She is too scared that she is going to be robed, taken hostage, or whatever else. My heart was broken for months over it. And since she told me she wasn't coming she has had no part of any of the planning and has barely talked to me.
Next problem was his aunts. They travel all over the world and go on lots of vacations every year but told us they weren't sure if they are coming or not because they don't want to leave his grandmother alone. Grandma is fine but I do understand she is older and may need one aunt to stay with her but there are three aunts and they all are married.
We picked a destination wedding so both of our families could vacation together and really get to know each other. We really do want one big happy wedding and that's what you have to stay focused on. No matter who comes, where your wedding is, at the end of that day you will be married to the man that has your heart and that's what is important or least that's what my friends keep telling
Happy planning,
Kristen.