I think you can find what you are looking for anywhere in the Caribbean. I would say, you first need to narrow it down to a couple of countries. If price is a concern, I would check out airfares to various places. For example, we fly out of Houston or Dallas. I wanted to go to St. Lucia for vacay, but flights were nearly $800, so that got knocked out. I would start like that. Then, check out tripadvisor.com. You can get a ranking of top resorts in each country. Â I personally got married in a small hotel in Jamaica, and I know there are a lot of beautiful small hotels there. But, in my researching for vacation spots, I have fallen in love with Tulum in Mexico. It is a small town, not touristy at all, if you stay away from Dreams, and has beautiful ruins to discover. It also has the second largest barrier reef in the world, if you're into snorkeling and/or SCUBA. Â What you are looking for is out there, it is just going to take a bit of time and patience to find that perfect spot. Don't give up! Good Luck!