CaboBride2010

hey there are many threads already on this topic so try use the search button on the top right of the forum page and you will definaltey find your answer that way

oo thanks ill try that out

hmm Angel that is an interesting solution! how long do you leave it on for? and how often?

Quote: Originally Posted by Jennifer Davis If your friend comes and gets your cats on Thursday, that's the same as letting your fiance win. I think he owes you to give it a real shot. Stand your ground. Don't let giving your furbabies away be an option. He'll get used to them. Just need to give it time and he needs to accept that you come with cats. Isn't the cardinal rule of relationships that you need to love someone for who they are and not try to change them? If you are a cat person and he knew this before you guys moved in together, then he needs to give this a real shot and not reneg on bringing in the cats and realize that these are your pets and that you love them. I totally agree! I was trying to think of a nice way to say it and Jennifer you put if perfectly! I was thinking that if you let your fiance win on not having the cats live with you anymore, what does this open the door to in the future? Stand your ground for sure.

I actually think having them live between your place and your friends will be the most traumatizing for your cats..

Quote: Originally Posted by jerseykitten THeir food and water and litter are in the basement and I'm ok with putting them in there at night, but now he's saying that that's not good enough. Wow ok i just re-read your original post and this caught my eye! I think that is very upfront and abrupt of him to say something isnt good enough when you are trying to make the situation better for everyone. Has he even given your suggestion of having their stuff in the basement and keeping them downstairs at night a fair chance

Not to be mean, but if your FI knew your cats were part of the "package" then it is not fair to get upset to the point where he doesnt even want your cats in the house now, KWIM?? Also, I wouldnt suggest just putting the cats somewhere on their own and "visiting" them, since this is what my stepmom had to do with her kids kittens when my dad moved in and now the poor kittens dont have the same personality anymore and its so sad to see So I would just say that he should give them a bit longer to see if he can get used to them, because they are your fur babies and its not fair at all for him to just want them to live somewhere else. Relationships are all about compromises so I hope between the two of you you can come up with one for the sake of your kitties!!

I am so happy for you that you are getting this photographer to do your photos!! Everyone has their opinion, but it is only yours that matters since you are the one getting your picture done I cant wait to see some teasers!! I am sure they will be amazing since you are so gorgeous!

Quote: Originally Posted by hamster627 I'm going to wait and see what resolution they come up with, if anything. IMO - they're adults. They should be able to figure something out that works for them, if its important enough. If they say no, then I'm going to have a heart-to-heart with him and drag my sister along to referee (lol - she doesn't know that yet) Ya definately wait and see what they say. Good idea on bringing your sister if you have a heart-to-heart with you dad. I know my stepmom is such a shit disturber who loves to cause trouble between me and my dad and sometimes if I can seperate him from her I can get through to him and he will change his mind on things. So I hope that if it comes to that, that he will see your side of this all!

aww im so sorry I hope your Dad makes the decision to go to your wedding!! I have huge issues with my dad and I say what you were saying is so true, if your dad cant find a way to get to your wedding then that is his problem! It is sad though that weddings bring out peoples true colours I hope this works out for the best Have you told your Dad how much it will hurt you if he isnt there?? like I mean have you have a heart to heart with him? It may help

I just thought I would add my two cents in on the topic of having yours or your FIs kids (i am not directing this to anyone specific) at the wedding. If you are going to bring them but are not too keen on spending the whole week with them, make sure whoever it is that you would like to watch them for the week knows about it before hand and isnt forced into feeling like they have to watch the kids. I know personally for my dad and stepmoms wedding, they brought my little step-siblings and it was just dropped on myself and my brother to watch them and pretty much expected. No one ever asked if we wanted to watch them the entire week and while I didnt mind, there were days that I too like the bride and groom wanted my own adult-time and didnt want to feel like I had to watch the kids. I also found it very upsetting to just wake up in the morning on the vacation and my dad and stepmom had already taken off for the day and left the kids with me to feed and entertain without having the courtesy to ask if it was ok with me. It gave me a very bitter feeling towards my dad at the end of the trip. Ok so I guess that turned into a vent lol, but just please dont make anyone feel pressured into watching your kids while on vacation for your wedding.

i am not a big boobed girl but have gotten a bra like this one at Victorias Secret and it has a very low back and is supportive. Maybe this could help you out? Victoria's Secret - 100-way bra

when I was in Maui this was pretty much in every single store and I bought some to try and wow it works!!!

haha ok so this was a couple years ago and I was buying postage at the post office and I was in la-la land for a reason I dont remember but the lady said "is this postage for here?" (meaning for Canada lol) and I was like "no, can I have it to go please??" lmao I was so embarassed when I realised what I said!! she looked at me like I was nuts

wow i also thought Expedia would be great to use....do you travel agents think this is common problem with most travel companies? or is this an case where it is extremely out of the ordinary? sorry if those questions sound ignorant, I have just never travelled where i book the travel myself so I am not aware of companies reputations...

I was almost in tears when I watched that video! I too thought it was going to be a comical terrible performance and at the end of it I felt terrible for judging her so quickly!

but seriously where are the resorts expecting people to get money from to pay for a vacation that they already paid for?!?! its crazy...so much for people being able to relax on vacation..

Quote: Originally Posted by jennierin The sad part about all of this is that they were still booking travel the day before they went out of business. Some people who are abroad right now are having problems with the resorts threatening to kick them out due to lack of payment. The news here in Toronto is basically telling us that approx. 200 + guests at the Oasis Cancun are being kicked out unless they pay the full amount (that they have already paid to Conquest) of their accommodations and if they don't that they will have the Police involved. Apparently Conquest has not paid the resort yet. I really feel for these people and hope and pray that everything works out for them. I'm happy that I haven't booked my wedding guests through Conquest but it doesn't ease my mind very much seeing as though none of Conquests customers knew what was coming. It was pretty shady of that company the way they handled everything. Wow that is absolutely terrible that they were still booking vacations the day before!! And also sorry but is Oasis Cancun stupid?! Obviously the people down there won't have the money handy to pay for the vacation they already paid for!! And what are they going to do about flying home?? I really feel for these people...

lol wow I was a ball of emotion when they saved him!! I wish i could vote because i too would vote a million times for Matt next week! But seriously who is voting for Lil to stay?!

OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG can i say it any better? lol

OMG I JUST SCREAMED AT HTE TV!!!! WTF?!?!?!?!?! seriously what is wrong with the people voting...ugh so tired of the wrong people staying on the show...ok i feel better for that...but wow

no worries we will fill you in

LOL i LOVED how you wrote if FOX was to call you and ask you about it lol and ya some of the stuff I didnt agree with that you wrote but hey thats the whole point of a show like this that everyone get their say

Ok Nikki, i dont remember the names of the songs that were sung but this is kind of what happened, hope it helps lol... Lil I think is going home for sure, she just was terrible and I obviously didnt learn from Megan talking back to Simon, so that wont help her case if she is voted off tonight. Danny was really good and I am glad Simon took his words back a little after picking at his performance, as it was obviously a very very meaningly song for him. Adam wow-ed me...thats all I can say about him. Kris was also amazing but not super memorable. Matt was terrible in my opinion, he tries too hard to change a song and it just becomes too much that it ruins the song, IMO. Anoop made a huge improvement this week! He is definately starting to listen to the judges advice. And Alison sang one of my all time favourite songs and she made me love it even more if that is possible. I am SO interested to see what happens tonight!

thanks Ann!