Quote: Originally Posted by YaelM Also to answer some of your concerns – I think it would be worse if you were both having a local wedding or both having a destination wedding but since they will be so different there will be no comparison.
It sounds like there will be a long enough time between your two weddings that for the ppl invited to both it shouldn’t be a big deal. Your friends and family love you and will be there in Jamaica for you regardless of your sister’s wedding!!! I completely agree with Yael.... If you were both having a DW, then family members would be in a position to choose between the two.
At the end of the day, those family and friends who want to go to your DW will be there, regardless of your sister's actions.
I would however, put my foot down... regarding sharing the limelight on dress shopping day. Simply tell her that you have made your bridal shoppe appointments, and would be happy to join her when it is her turn. I hope she'll understand.