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Beautiful!!!

Congrats and welcome back! Your colours are simply stunning and they just jump right off the page!

DH is 2 years (less a week) older than me. My birthday is Dec 13 and he's Dec 20. We're two very mellow sagittarians!

Great job Glenny!

DWs are still fairly uncommon, although they are gaining in popularity (this site is a testament to that!). What your FI doesn't understand is that you can have as much, or as little, of the traditional trappings as you want. It doesn't matter whether it's at home or on an island. The only "issue" would be the amount of people that won't be joining you because of the cost. Sure, many people would view a DW as a vacation, others would view it as a financial burden. You will have to determine how important is it to have as many of your friends/relatives celebrate with you. And remember that even some of your closest friends/relatives may not be able to come due to work, financial or other constraints. You could always compromise and have the DW of your dreams and an AHR when you get back.

What a cute idea! I bet if they had used fishing line instead of the wire it would have looked more under the sea-like during the ceremony. Very creative couple, and you shot it well.

I think Sapphire got it right! Throw the whole stinking idea right back into their laps. Quote: Originally Posted by Sapphire723 Then tell them that you understand completely if they do not feel the AHR is affordable and that you won't be hurt if it needs to be canceled. ? And, I'm glad that your FI understands you need to present a united front. In fact, HE should be doing the talking because they are his parents, not yours, and he needs to set them straight.

I agree the trees should be a bit lower, and I would probably make your names more prominent, i.e. bolder and may-be slightly bigger. I love your colours and the overall design is great!

Thanks for posting that info the B2Bs Frannkie. Ladies, this vendor has been discussed before on this forum. Try a search and see what comes up for more information.

You're more creative than you think! All three names you came up with on your own are great, although I'm partial to Mexitini!

They turned out great Angela! I ordered my mugs from them too and also had no issues with them. It's natural for a large company like theirs to have a few glitches now and then, but if you do a search on this site alone you will most likely find that most brides had a positive experience with them (notwithstanding the shipping & duties!). It would be nice though if we had a comparable provider in Canada (price-wise) so that we wouldn't be forced to order from the US and get stuck with the extra fees.

Great thread! Your new dress is beautiful and I'm loving the shoes! Have a wonderful wedding

Giving them a deadline is the best way to go so that you can better control the planning process. You will undoubtedly have the last-minute stragglers who book 2 days before departure, but they run the risk that the hotel will be sold out and they will have to stay elsewhere, or the prices have gone up. My suggestion is to plan for a few extra stragglers when preparing your bags, etc., just in case. Most people will honour the deadline, if given one.

Amen ......

They're all nice! The halters look very sexy on you, but my favourite is #4. It's very classy and you look great in it.

Wonderful review Liz! Congratulations

There is a sticky on this topic in the flowers & decor section with plenty of ideas. http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...ces-here-9012/

Good for you for going for it! You would probably have kicked yourself forever if you didn't!

Great planning thread! Have a wonderful wedding

I LOVE "found each other again" stories! Congratulations and welcome to the forum. You will find all the information you need, plus more, on this site! Happy planning!

It's great Kim that you and your FI have decided to put this behind you. It sounds like your FMIL has issues that neither you, or her family, can solve and more than likely this won't be the last time she says or does something hurtful. Only a professional can help her at this point. The best piece of advice I can give you is to ignore her and don't take anything she says personally, no matter how much it hurts. Your FI and your friends and family know and love the real you and you can take comfort in that knowledge. Accept her for the crazy-lady she is and learn to laugh at her ridiculous (and sad) behaviour. It always amazes me when people like her somehow manage to raise normal, well-adjusted, children (like your FI). Keep your chin up and stay strong!

Welcome and congratulations!! I've also been to both Aruba and DR, and the biggest difference to consider is $$$. Aruba is much more expensive than DR, so you'll have to consider your guest list and how important it is to you that as many people as possible can come. If you're planning a very small, intimate wedding with few guests, then Aruba will do too. Good luck with your planning!

Your planning journal is great! I LOVE your e-ring --- so pretty!

Your review is so detailed, and coupled with your gorgeous picks, is a great resource for all the up and coming Dreams PV brides. Congratulations - it looks like your wedding was wonderful!

Great job!