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Yeah mine has done sod all either lol so now I've told him i'm doing nothing more and if he wants anything that isn't sorted he better do it i'm not lol He's gone very quiet so with any luck he'll STFU lol Just say look I don't want to fight with you but you have to help me otherwise some stuff won't happen, he'll help

Let it go honestly it's not worth the agro. FI and I are only getting married because he is going to Afghanistan, it's a horrible place to go, as is Iraq, and if getting engaged gives him something to look forward to then be happy for him. Trust me he will need it

I got this on email but it had a few choice words at the ending lmao

See i'm kind of like your FI lol I never used to cook and FI would always make me something different to him because generally I don't eat the shit he will lol But now I kind of cook it boils my piss when he decides what I'm having for my tea lol Just because he has no portion control and I end up giving over half to the dogs and thinking jesus that's 2 meals lol We have an understanding now lol If I don't want what he has cooked then I'll just do something for myself its not a prob lol I suppose its different for us tho as he's never home so i might not seem him for 6 weeks then he's there for a week controlling my life lol Soooooooooooo say I'm having this either have the same or poke off you fussy get lol that's what FI says to me sometimes lmao

Totally off subject but KAT congrats lol x

See for me its still Thursday and the rest on Friday lol Motown could be tricky for some

No if you don't want them there say either pay $900 or bugger off lol that is a lot of cash its not just a few quid

Even if you did need it apostiled honestly it takes about 3 days and costs £33 and its only your birth certs that need doing, all the other stuff is fine. I've always had to have this for Mexico and I would imagine it's going to be worldwide soon

Even if you did need it apostiled honestly it takes about 3 days and costs £33 and its only your birth certs that need doing, all the other stuff is fine. I've always had to have this for Mexico and I would imagine it's going to be worldwide soon

If he's a Dr it'll not be anything to him unfortunately lol Sorry but it's a bloke thing - they are usually insensitive unless its them that are in pain lol I'm sure it will be fine and just think once its done - no more pain! yay!!

Ok well the 2nd half was on last night and the results lol Now i read what you said about Paula I noticed it even more and wanted to slap her lol I think Simon just sits laughing at her and that other woman gets right on my wick 2 I don't know what it is about her but I don't like it lol I don't think Alexis was the worst either. What is it next week?

I'm not doing them - it's not done in the UK and we only get 20kg luggage so its a no go for me

Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl major facebook family drama today ... tom's half-sister who told us she wasn't coming (because of money) posted about her family's 10-day trip to Disney the SAME WEEK as our wedding. her father saw it and got PISSED OFF and commented on her page ... and major back-and-forth family drama ensued ... but the funny thing is that now her husband has now deleted us all from his friends list ... what is this? grade school? LOL See this is why I hate face book lol FI's best man told him he couldn't come this week lol I knew it was coming it has been since May last year but FI keeps getting "don't worry mate i'll be there even if its just me" yeah sackless pile of shite lol FI said give him a ring and help him out about his divorce lol my response was "sod off" he can pay for another lawyer with what he's saving on the hol lmao

Cassie don't worry you didn't i'm terrible for spoilers lol Casey lol i know what you mean but i always go for the freaks hence FI lmao

Well we are 2 days behind over here lol so is Alexis the little cute one with pink in her hair lol They only show half the show on a Thursday night and half Tomorrow with the results! it always kills me when they leave it half way through lol I do have a very very very big soft spot for Adam lol

I only know English law so thats probs not going to help but I can give you a bit of insight I think! In your DH's contract does it say he cann't work within X amount of miles of the practice should he leave for a certain time? If it does then over here you can't but its arguable. Especially as he's just changed all the terms of the contract, rescinded it and was in effect going to pay off your DH anyway. I'd challenge it but yeah it is going to cost you $. If his cow of a wife is behind it as soon as it starts costing her $ she is going to back down, Slander is also really expensive to sort out but I'd get a Solicitors letter threatening the counter sue. It shouldn't cost you much and it might just frighten them off. As for your m8 i'd go and face him the spinless git, however on the upside if he's being horrible to his clients you are going to get them lol

Quote: Originally Posted by PhillyBride09 P.S. Harty I can't wait for your review after your wedding!! Set them straight so by the time the rest of get there, they know what they need to do..LOL :-) I won't have many probs with them now as I'm only having the service there lol but don't worry I won't take ANY crap lol

I'd apologise over my dead body lol I haven't spoken to FMIL for over 15 months, didn't have a fight with her just don't like her lol If FI has any sense HE'LL tell his mother she is hurting him not you and that he wants her there but I wouldn't be apologising. Maybe shouting at her in public wasn't great but neither was her shouting her mouth off to other people. I mean if she had said that to your face you can have said I can lose weight you will always be an ugly cow ! lol That would have ended that situation lol Hindsight is a wonderful thing tho! Do what you feel YOU want to do but don't back down to make her or FI happy if you don't mean it - once you do it you'll do it forever.

Good for you for sticking to your guns about the bill lol You're more patient than me I think i'd have proper lost it lmao I'm pleased you liked it tho makes me feel a little happier lol

Lisa I got a reply to my email from Claudia, in less than 24 hours whoo hoo lol I don't need to send her my docs before hand. I'd double check with her just ask her direct lol

I've got a friend like that. We called each other every day and were like sisters until I said I was getting married, bear in mind she had got married 3 months before lol, hardly speak now and i can't be arsed lol she said the other day whats happening with the wedding and I said why you asking you don't care lol that killed that convo. Can't be bothered to pretend anymore let them get on with it miserable gits!

I'm not really having any so i've bought nothing really lol one of my best friends is coming and giving me away so i'm buying her a bracelet but its about £65

We've been engaged over 5 years lol we were just not in a hurry to get married - we're only doing it now as he leaves the forces in 3 years and wants me to be in the pension trap lol he's also going to Afghan soon so it just made sense. FMIL asked me about 4 years ago not to wait too long as "jock" was getting old! I said who the hell is that lol she said my brother! Before FI could jump in i said "oh can he afford a trip to antigua! and i've never met him so not happening" lol his step dad said quite agree and told her to shut her trap lol She has mentioned it since before we decided we would actually do it I'd just tell her to mind her own business lmao She got the hint once FI ripped her a new one lol

I understand the importance of thank you cards and I was brought up where whenever you received a gift, birthday or otherwise, you either sent a card or you made a phone call thanking people and this I have done since I could write and speak. At my last wedding I did sent out thank you cards but only to those that gave me a gift why would I thank someone for coming to my wedding drinking all the booze and stuffing their face at my expense lol They weren't coming to wish me well but because they had a sense of "duty" to come. This time there will be 9 of us including myself and FI and IF I get a gift off anyone (which to be honest I don't expect or even require) then I will send a card. However I will not be sending thank you cards for the guests who are spending approximately 5 hours with us on the wedding day and the rest of the time getting slaughtered at the hotel or going on trips. They have booked a trip to Cancun and it happens to coincide with my wedding. Maybe its a UK thing but if I went and thanked my guests and also then gave them a card they are very likely to say to me WTF is that for!!! lol The only one that will expect a thank you will be FMIL and she can kiss my ass because I'd only send her a card if she DIDN'T come lmao I know most won't agree with this but this is me. I think there is a time and place for thank you cards but there is also overkill!

Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl i just got my stuff together to send my birth certificate for apostille. originally my TA said claudia said original birth certificate was fine, but i don't think claudia understood her. i wrote to claudia asking if we needed the apostille, OR just our original birth certificates, and her answer was "yes, please." it wasn't a yes/no question! so we're getting our apostilles to be safe! also, i had no idea we were supposed to send copies of all our paperwork a month in advance until someone posted about it on here ... when was claudia gonna tell me that, when it was too late? all you ladies doing symbolic ceremonies have it so good ... i envy you! You are joking! I specifically asked her that and she said it was fine - I swear to freaking hell I'm gonna knack her lol I've sent ANOTHER email asking her if she needs the stuff before we get there lol There again not sure I care at the mo lol I can't even decide whether I want to do it anymore lol