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At least it'll be warm Celina :-)

I had that from some ex-family members lol FI pushed me out the door before I could say look forward to it all you like you aren't invited lol You do have to say look I really appreciate all the attention but you aren't invited and leave it at that lol I have one friend that keeps going over and over and over again about how it's expensive and it's people's holidays - I eventually said yeah I know that's why I didn't invite you! that shut her up lol You've just got to be straight and stick to your decision

Quote: Originally Posted by lil_miss_frogg I always love seeing your responces....they crack me up. If you wanna get one....Brian Bergeron Designs they range in price according to the metal you get. Lol I'm on it - FI wants another ring for when he goes on tour - i'm just pissed I had to buy the £160 one when £7 would do lmao Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl i don't care, because i love that he picked them out (they are matching and are engraved with "mo anam cara" which means "my soul mate" in irish gaelic ... he considers me his "soul mate?" awww *swoon*). Fuck em they aren't wearing them lol

Oh don't lol we don't have hats with bows its usually a veil with condoms on and a flashing tiara! they wouldn't dare do that to me or there would be hell to pay lol We don't have half the traditions that you do lol THANK GOD! lmao

I love it I'd have had one like that myself lol GET IT GET IT lol

Honestly don't worry take a deep breath and look at it again lol I got mine ages ago and loved it, then I was made to order the next size up and if i'm honest I purposely ate shite so it didn't fit and I HATED it lol Now I tried it on again with my m8 and her 6 year old who is brutal lol and they both said its lovely. It was actually my friend who grabbed it pulled it tight into my waist and said see it is lush its just too big. So trying pinning it back so it fits and its probably going to be different

Quote: Originally Posted by Michelle613 Thanks! I'll put that in my invitation then but this really sucks because the person who is giving me the headache about not staying in my hotel is my bridesmaid lol. I'll try to figure something out. But for now I guess in the invitation I'll write all guests not staying at the hotel must present their invitation at the door...or something like that. I was told an hour before would be ok 2 so i'm hoping to sneak the photographer in as they are the only ones not staying at our hotel lmao and Lisa is right it does go up it was $50 last year lol the bloody bandits

Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl LOL harty this was the family bridal shower with moms and grandmoms and flowergirls, not the bachelorette party! Ah all clear lmao I said to my aunt you played sax and she said "is she mad too" lmao

Were they the clean ones lol

Who cares about the pics lol I mean no-one would give a toss if a straight bloke was snogging the face off a girl! so not arsed at all. We don't get to hear all the background stuff that you guys do, mum had a kidney transplant and it was no breeze so good for him

Ok so the actual first show was only shown last night and we just got to see Adam before it cut off but really he's way above the others. I haven't seen the results show but I'm glad scott has gone there is a limit to how many bloody ballads you can sign lol For me the final 3 are: - Adam, Danny and Alison There again its not me voting so who knows lol

Morgan I know what you mean. I was lucky dad wasn't into the church at all so I didn't go I wasn't even able to go to Brownies cause it meant I would have to go to church and I hated it lol I used to stand at the door hands on either side of the doorway going "no no no" lol mum only took me twice before dad said it wasn't happening again lol I'm not bothered about anyone's religion i think its a personal thing and as long as it isn't shoved down my throat I don't really care. However what I think is really weird is my cousins! I'm a good 8 years older than the oldest and about 17 years older than the youngest, they NEVER go to church and as far as I was aware aren't interested. So when the oldest one got married it was a massive church thing, that's fine no problem with that but then the oldest and the youngest have kids and go and do a full on 90 min christening! I mean wtf is it me or is that totally hypocritical? I just don't get it

Congrats Yael

Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl haha i'm waiting for tom to spring one on me, lol! good for you for getting it finished tho! I was a bit sneaky really lol I got a Barrister to do it for free on the understanding I sent him some work lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by paraisobeachbride2009 harty - hahaha, ah that's awesome! You talk to your FMIL how I WISH I could talk to mine. Where does she get off coming over to do YOUR garden? My ILs invite themselves over all the time, so I know how you feel. lol Lol it comes easy to me lol The other week she was visiting her sister which was about 2 hours from us and she had to pass us to go there lol I said to FI funny your mother didn't stop lol he said well she wasnt invited was she lol I said yep correct glad she got the message lmfao

Andrea tell her to sod off. $$ are hard to come by and you pay for what you believe in not so that she can go on a jolly. Religion has always been a bit weird for me. I was brought up athiest and in fact my dad was anti religion until he decided a lot of stuff in budhism was close to what he believed. I've always had an open mind and wanted to learn about other religions but I have to say i've not found one that I could totally believe in. FI is very anti religious especially since his step-dad died you can't even mention it otherwise he blows a gasket.

I haven't got any funny ones - I just think she's a selfish maniupulative bint who can't stand being on her own so when one hubby goes she finds another quick no matter how much of a twat he is lol Ah and her kids are way down on her priorities its all abut HER. Wedding is going to be fun not spoken to her for 1 1/2 years lmfao Although hang on I do have one lol we were out having dinner one night and she says she's coming up to MY house to do the garden!! wtf lol I said what for thats FI's job and if he can't get his lazy ass to do it you aren't lol so laughing she says are you doing me out of a weekend up yours (they live a couple of hours ago) and I said yes lmao that ended that convo lol

I want the whole bloody thing over with 2 lol i just sorted out my pre-nup today lmao

Don't worry i was the first to say i can't stand the inlaws lol quite a few will be with you lol

I think a receiving line is where you stand to say hi and thanks for coming to the guests

Nope not doing it - more to pack and can't see the point but again its an individual thing really

I think it's where you dance about people pin dollars on to you

Well tell her to stump up all the cash for the extra guests from both sides and see if that stops her in her tracks lol

FI was exactly the same with me. I used threats of kicking his head in lol that worked but I just had to ride it out lol It stops soon honestly

Must have: Groom Alcohol (need it to get through the day!) Don't care: The rest of it Don't want but having anyway FMIL and hubby!!