Hartyt509

Don't hate me but I didn't mind Danny lol I loved Adam and I defo agree Alison didn't deserve to go lol I was laughing at Slow Ride because I play it all the time on guitar hero so i'm sad and know all the words pmsl In fact I knew all the words to all the songs they sang - fuck i'm old lmao

I know how you feel most of my friends are male and 100% of them have all told me not to do this because it's not right for me lol 2 of them are coming to my wedding and that is it - others have let me down left right and centre and worse of all none of FI's friends or family are coming and I know he is secretly gutted because he always wanted a big wedding. You don't need a shower or any of that crap - you do what you want to do and if you don't want one don't have one chick

Quote: Originally Posted by dbellie1414 Nah, don't kill him before the wedding do what I am gonna do... Just accidentally lose his passport!!! that'll be way funnier!!! Now that is a good idea lol not only will I get a nice holiday on my own but he'll get prison from work for losing it lmfao

Yeah I've had it too lol the other night the phone was ringing off the hook and luckily FI was home and I kept handing him the phone lol People i've not spoken to or couldn't arsed to speak to me after I decided to get married are ringing to me acting all concerned lol I've told numerous people to mind their own business and fuck off lol some have taken it well others haven't lmao and I don't give a freaking shite lol

Dad said he would pay for our trip but I refused - our wedding our problem. FMIL said she would give us a wedding present of cash! Yeah £200 lol apparently thats what she has given all the kids (there are 4 including FI) lol I said oh how did she pay for a wedding with £200 lol In other words she paid for the other weddings and then gave them £200 but FI just gets the £200! lol I couldn't care less it's less to tell her to shove up her arse if you ask me lol

That's a bit of a shocker!! Yeah I think Danny is the sympathy vote myself lol I don't mind him but I like Adam think he's just a true performer but sometimes I want him to knock the camp on the head it does me in lol

Quote: Originally Posted by bumbles Oh, Harty! I've thought about killing FI too. Then I'd take his plane ticket and upgrade mine to a first class flight... Oooo I like lol I'd bring one of my mates that just wanted to party lmao

Come on tell me who went lol I might not get to see it before I leave for Barbados lol Haway girls you normally say who it was lol

I leave in 2 days! and i've done nowt lol I need to clean the house major, tidy up and pack lol have I done anything? Have I shit lol FI has been off all day and guess what he's done? correct FUCK ALL lol he's cut the grass in the garden and thats it and the cheeky twat just said on Sat we can clean the house!! hello he's off tomorrow and I'm at work! Honestly I think i might kill him before the wedding lol

My mum always said there is a fine line between love and hate lol She regularly said I mostly can't stand your dad but I do love him lol Think I may have that attitude cause this morning I wanted to kill the git lol

Lol thanks i'll bear it in mind but as I've just managed to re-arrange and get married on the 15th it may be tight lol Cheers tho

Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl marie they can't stop one of your wedding guests from taking photos at your wedding! if you'd be paying for their travel and their stay anyway they'd be guests of the resort already ... just add on the cost of one more guest! You would think so wouldn't you lol not sure i'd get away with it tho and it would depend on whether they were willing to do it. So we've decided that we can't afford it so that's no pics for us! lol Less to shred at the divorce lmao

Sylvia thanks i'm hoping it'll be ok but at this min i just want to get some heat lol

It's really great for all of you to help - I'm knackered tho my resort won't allow outside photographers!! so no photographs for me because for what they want to charge me for 48 photographs I could could have the wonderful Michael above lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by dc22173 I feel terrible that you are having to go through all of this. This should be the happiest time in your life!!!! Who is you photographer maybe we can pressure them into giving you your money back. This is just not good business!!! Do you not have the option of waiting another month and continuing with your plans for Mexico? I can not imagine that the airline will continue to lose money by canceling flights for that long period of time. There has got to be some better options for you!!!! This really sucks!!!! Nah I'm stuck with my dates as FI is going to Afghanistan beginning of June so its then or never really! bummer innit lol and no she's already said i can't have my deposit back so thats me down $600 as insurance won't pay!! Apparently its not enough that we can't fly there it has to be a problem with the hotel lol Quote: Originally Posted by SIMBASIM THAT F'N SUCKS! I really am going to miss your sarcasm and funny slang! I need some humor at this point in the game! Give me a shout I can always think of something to have a go at for you lol Quote: Originally Posted by mummergirl not to hijack the dreams thread, but what hotel have you booked now? Think its called Causarina Beach - not my type of place but all i could get

If you aren't happy about it have FI tell her, his mother his job. I didn't care about white as my dress is black anyway lol but there was no chuffing way anyone was wearing pink and they all understood lol

I reckon so lol

No it is Barbados - but I don't want to go lol Yeah I have but it's too late - apparently the hotel they wanted to put us in have "strict" rules! personally I think my TA is a lying bastard and is getting a massive kick back from the barbados lot. I asked him and he denied it lol He tried to charge me about £500 more than he has and I said fuck off give me my money i'm going to virgin lol funny how he then matched the virgin price. I mean he has rang me about 20 x asking for all our names again! then asking stupid questions but when I ask the details of the wedding he says i'll get back to you tomorrow. I said look I defo need 4 seats and 3 rooms so he said ok lol I said one of my mates is cancelling her son but she will need to ring you to confirm everything. She rang him 5 mins later and he said oh don't worry marie has changed your booking!! I mean WTF! lol I thought fuck if i'd known he'd do that i'd have cancelled FMIL's months ago lol

Quote: Originally Posted by Maybride2009 I am pretty much right there with you. Wasn't this supposed to be fun? Everyone tells me that at the wedding I will be so happy and it all won't matter, but right now all I can envision is me flipping everyone off and calling a lot of people F*ckers in my speach! With ya lol I even text one of my good mates and said lets run away where we can't be found but he wasn't up for it lol some mate

No they cancelled my flights to mexico and i'm now going to Barbados lol

Every day I go between thinking this is the best thing for me and then what the hell am I doing lol I'm a realist too and happy ever after i've never seen so I take just one day at a time and see what happens

Mine isn't a workaholic but I hardly see him because of his job lol I think it's great, if he was here all the time i'd want to murder him lol Mind I will have to check my emails every day while I'm away but that'll be my excuse to get away lol

Well they've just cancelled my flights!! so that's me not going to Mexico and being screwed by Barbados - yep I'm pissed right off can you tell lol

Quote: Originally Posted by Kristy! I probably shouldn't tell you this, but that's total crap. The residency requirement in St. Lucia is 2 business days, but if you pay the rush fee ($150), you can get married the same day. FI is arriving Thursday evening, we're submitting the paperwork Friday morning and will have the go-ahead by Friday evening for our Saturday wedding. I've decided I don't like your TA. Based on everything you've told me, he sounds like a lazy jerk. Yeah well I agree - the hotel apparently wanted the paperwork a month before. So I checked with them and that was right! Couldn't believe it. I do think it's funny tho that last week he was giving me the gen on St Lucia but then today he wouldn't even talk about it he was all Barbados! Great, a place I don't want to go, a miserable FI because we now have to go and buy him more shirts and we've lost our extra leg room and his sister is dying, a friend who is bringing a right arsehole with her, no photographer unless we take it up the rear off the resort and i've had to pay £350 for the privilege. I just don't want to do any of this anymore i've fucking had enough of everything