I think we must take into consideration the extra costs of day passes when planning a dw. It has to be a cost factored in to your budget. Who are we to judge who can afford the pass and who can't, and what about if you pay for some and not others and then the others find out and are confused, it could lead to awkward situations. It is just rude to charge a cover charge for your wedding. We were going to get married in Jamaica, my dream place, and we changed our location because we were fully aware that it would cost us a lot in passes. Everton, who is from Jamaica, relized that many in his family would stay with family members, and we would also be expected to invite his local family members. This would therefore end up costing way too much in day passes, we changed our destination because I could never ask people to pay a fee to come to my wedding. We also have a few guests in the DR who are staying at time shares, I am absolutely obligated to pay for them to come on to my resort, I am their host for this event (our wedding) and therfore it is my dime, not theirs that will pay for the passes. If you must then cut back on something in your wedding budget so you can accomadate your friends and family. Your guests won't remember some of the details, that could be adjusted, but they will remember that your wedding was the wedding that they had to pay to get into. All the oot bags in the world won't erase that memory for them!
Kelly~
Kelly~