I got my bm personalized tote bags, small tote bag with their initials, bridesmaids tanks with a palm tree iron-on patch, their bracelets and earrings to wear the day of, also I paid for their flip flops, we got white old navy flip flops and decorated them. My gm we are getting them Jimmy Buffett Margaritaville flip flops to wear the day of (not cheap) their ties and I think a tie clip. The girls are getting quantity and guys are getting quality, I could keep going for my girls though! I've seen so many cute things!