It's nice to meet ya, ladies! Erica- Your kitty is sooo cute! We live in a lower flat of an old home and I have been dying to get a pet. I figure if I get my landlord liquored up enough one night... maybe! Otherwise I guess I will have to wait until we buy a house. St. Thomas is going to be a blast. I have never been to the Caribbean, but was researching St. Lucia before we decided on Maui. I think a cruise wedding would be so much fun! Are you being given a hard time about how long your engagement is? Howard and my parents are both driving us crazy, but we are paying for our own wedding and have some friends that need the time to save in order to afford to go. Tyra- I know what you mean about the DVR. FI and I just got into a tiff today about that. My best friend who is getting married in May doesn't have DVR right now so I tape and save all my favs for her for when we get together. He got mad today because there was only 3% left in the DVR:) Have you checked out the website, "The Plunge"? It's a site kinda like this but with GQ style articles for men. They have an article about "wedding porn" and my FI jokes to everyone that I am addicted to all things wedding "wedding porn" since getting engaged. So he has to suffer through "Say yes to the dress", "bridalplasty", and "bridezillas". Poor guy! My last name will be Leu (pronounced Loo)- So Liza Leu, which was my nickname as a child. This Xmas, my Mom took to calling me Liza Leu Who after watching the new version of the Grinch. I hope that doesn't stick. I think William Williams is hilarious! Sorord1- I spend a ton of time in Chicago and am interested in great BD photographers in the area as well... Milwaukee doesn't really seem to have anyone with portfolios that I like. Let me know if you find out anything!