Ah, girls i spent the first 4 years hating OH's family, all i do now is spend as little time with them as possible, easier for me cos we're in spain, but then harder when they come out to visit! I've made it clear that they're his family, not mine, and that any interference is not welcome (when i had jacob they knew everything about everything and never hesitated to tell me i was bringing him up wrong, FFIL even pushed me away from the pram once, with a "shift, i'm pushing". yeah, i went mental..... anyway, not entirely sure how 2 weeks in mexico will go, but it's my wedding and i will not let anyone ruin it. my dad has an excellent saying "SAY NOTHING, THINK BOLLOCKS" i use this a lot when they're doing my head in. by the way, they try to show equality to my kids, but if money is given out, MY daughter mia gets about half of what OUR son Jacob gets........