Hi AngieMarie113, I thought I was the only one with a date so far away. My date is 12/31/2011. I haven't decided on a resort either, but since being on here I have been leaning towards Dreams Cancun. It has gotten such great reviews and also since I am African American, another bride mentioned on her wedding review that they have a hairstylist that can do black hair. So I am really excited about that. The information on here is great. Check out the travel forum and also check out your particular destination spot, it should have lots of information there for you to read about. Good luck and happy planning.