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I don't like the mid section of dress #2, I do like the back of it the most. However, I like #1 on you the best overall. Maybe remove the straps on dress #1?

What a dress! You should wear what you feel beautiful in.

love the sea horse

These are all very cute ideas! Might have to steal one of them :-)

I think you might be overreacting just a tad bit. You have the right to be upset because she didn't respond to you when you first told her you didn't want the cottage, but I don't think it is worth growing a brain tumor over. I do agree that it sucks to loose complete privacy, but you will be so busy on your wedding day and the day will go by so fast that you probably won't even notice them. Maybe ask the manager to leave a note that asks them to be respectful of the wedding reception? Or if you meet them ahead of time and you like them, invite them to join the reception after the dinner is served and the dancing starts? It's your wedding, if you keep focusing on the bad then you will only have bad memories of your special day.

Just apologize and say that you already turned in your final count and that you would be penalized if you keep adding people. Also that you already had to say no to extended family and friends to keep the cost down so it would be unfair to them if you made an exception. That would mean allowing everyone else to come which will throw off your budget. Be nice and cheerful when talking to him so that he doesn't catch on to your real feelings. Suggest having a get together after the wedding so that they can hangout then or maybe promise to send them a link to the wedding pictures.

Well, you could always redo your vows at the AHR. Maybe a family member or friend can perform a symbolic ceremony? Just keep it short and sweet. You could also videotape your wedding in Maui and show it at the AHR so that people could see what it was like.

I hope it works out. No matter what, buying a home in general is very stressful. Unless you absolutely love and must have the house, maybe it's not worth going through with it? There will always be homes for sale and I don't think the market has bottomed out. I'm also not keen on borrowing money from family because it could end up hurting the relationship. However, you are almost done with the buying process so it might be easier to just bite the bullet. Best of luck!

great job!

I read a few articles about how playboy was loosing a ton of money and how hef had to cut down on his spending. I think that might have been another reason why Holly, Bridget and Kendra decided to leave instead of stick around until he died. That probably meant a cut in their monthly allowance and less travel and parties. I also think the money that they were promised if they stuck around until hef died was also removed from their contract. Hank definitely makes more money than what hef would have ever been able to give Kendra and he makes more than most guys out there. I think she likes Hank an all, but I'm sure she wouldn't be marrying him or having kids with him if he was broke.

I think she is just trying to make sure that she is still financially secure in case something happens to the relationship. Having a child means more financial support if they were to get a divorce or if the wedding were to not happen at all. As dumb as she may look, she cares about her financial well being. Probably not the best reason to get married or have a kid though. She may love him, but I am sure there is still a little gold digger in her.

I feel like both earings might be a bit top heavy considering the dramatic botom on your dress. Maybe I am just having a hard time picturing it. They are both pretty earings though. I like what the model is wearing- stud earings and a fancy necklace.

I love the blue and the detail. It's dainty, has a nice sparkle and is elegant.I wouldn't sweat about the ring, most women care more about actually being engaged and planning a wedding. Maybe you can find the matching band somewhere or have her design her own?

What a dress!

I'm also eager to hear more ideas since I'm going to have a fairly small wedding myself. I hear a popular thing to do is to get fire dancers. It's short and can be costly, but it will help get the party started. Maybe do a toast with tequila shots and then start the dancing!

Except for your mom and yourself, I don't think anyone would save this invite or remember it after the fact. Just say you where so stressed with wedding stuff and work that you forgot to mail them on time or say you left your fiance in charge and he forgot to mail them on time. Then send a last minute evite to people or call by phone to let them know about the party details. To make sure you don't hurt your family friends feelings, put the invites in a basket for your guests to take home at the party and make a short announcement that she worked hard to make these and you want to give her recognition (you could put them at a place that's hard to notice and make the announcement before most of your guest arrive).

I like the idea of putting the name at the bottom of the invite. You could also avoid putting parents names on the actual invite and just attached a separate sheet with the names of the paprents, bridesmaids and groomsmen, it's one way to keep things peaceful. It's probably not traditional, but it's your wedding and you can do whatever you want! :-)

I think the problem stems from wanting to be the first of everything for your FH. You should be thankful that he isn't friends with his ex and that he doesn't bring up the topic. I was surrounded by my FH's exes and a best friend that was a little to close for my liking. Sadly, I turned into a bit of a crazy person and didn't like it. It's best to just put it behind you and move on. I'm always around if you need someone to talk to, sometimes it's easier to discuss everything and anything if you don't know the person already. Just send me an email :-)

No, but maybe it would help to list what your fears are.

Wow, I love everything! You gave me some awesome ideas. I'm really loving your dress and the pashmina's! P.S. congrats on the awesome figure!

Cabo is great! That's where I am getting married and for the following reasons- It's not as expensive for our guest to fly there compared to let's say Cancun. ( I think it's like a couple hundred dollar difference+, which can really add up). The weather is pretty much great year round except in the summer when it can reach the 90's and sometimes the 100's (but even then it really isn't that bad). There are storms from July-August, but I hear they aren't as bad as other places in Mexico. It's still popular amongst the young spring breakers, but not as bad as cancun. You may not be able to swim in the ocean, but all the resorts have pools and you would be too busy with wedding details to have time to swim at the beach anyway. The area is a little bit more high end, hence it's more expensive than other places in Mexico. Plenty of good restaurants from expensive French restaurants to taco stands and awesome hotels. Plus, there is also a Costco and Wal Mart nearby if you need supplies. If you want to avoid the tourist traps and young spring breakers, then I would suggest San Jose Del Cabo, which is a few minutes away from Cabo. It's still touristy, but not as congested.

#2 because like everyone said, #1 might be a little risque. Have you thought about doing a short dress with some awesome heels? Donna Ricco Ruffle Silk Chiffon Dress - Wedding Dresses - Nordstrom I also love this dress because it would really sparkle at night- Sean Collection Sequin Godet Hem Gown - Wedding Dresses - Nordstrom & this dress reminds me a lot of a destination wedding dress. It has that romantic vibe to it. BCBGMAXAZRIA Lace & Tulle Tier Gown - Wedding Dresses - Nordstrom Anyways, check out Nordstom since I was considering getting a second dress for the reception too.

Hmmm, I'm also trying to figure out what colors I want. Do you know what color flowers you will have at your wedding? Try to pick colors that flatter your flowers. I was thinking of doing a sage or lime green color and white. I was also thinking of throwing in one more color such as black, brown or gold. It's simple, elegant and goes with any type of decoration that the resort might have. Here are some other combos that I've considered- Red, Orange, Green for flowers and Brown for bridesmaid dresses and other cloth decor Wedding Bouquet (Fall Colors) | Royalty Free Stock Photo Image | iStockphoto.com (example of flowers I want) Blue and Brown decor with white flowers and plenty of candles Or like I mentioned before. Green decor and white flowers with plenty of candles I'm starting to love the idea of plum purple and gold though. It would really fit with the fall weather. Maybe through in some red?

Cute idea and I love the wrap job!

I think the better question to ask is why doesn't she like you and why isn't she going to the wedding even though it seems like she can afford it? I would never skip out on my best friends wedding. I hate to say it, but it kinda sounds like she is jealous and harbors feelings for your FI. Especially the fact that you feel this weird vibe that she doesn't like you. Listen to your gut instinct. That said, I may be wrong. I say just invite her since it's never to late to try to be friends with her. That way, you can't say you didn't try.