Ours will be about 18,000-20,000 we really picked an expensive place! too late for changes though! We are saving like crazy and it should all be paid in cash when we are finished! We are buying all our expenses on a credit card to earn miles to help pay for the trip but at the end of the month we pay off the entire balance. serious discipline All of the extra goes to the wedding STRESS STRESS STRESS it better be worth it in the end!