Michelle

Heyy....well honestly I wouldnt worry that your sister has already stayed there...if its where you want to get married that I would only really worry about where you want to stay ...if you start trying to accomodate EVERYONE that you want to go than you will get frustrated and want to scrap the whole thing probably and thats not fair to you and your FI. So i say just stick with that resort and I am sure your sister will understand.

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Hey ladies! Thank you so much for the support!! Its so nice to know I can come on here when im recovering and have lots of amazing people to talk to So today I had my final appointment at the hospital and it was kind of cool I met the doctors and nurses that are going to be there during my hospital stay so that was a little comforting.....that only part of today I didnt like was that my surgery date was moved two days forward so it is now Sept 23 instead of the 25th I was in tears when they told me this but my FI has told me that its for the better because then it will all be over with sooner and it means also I will be home a couple days before thanksgiving even if i cant eat alot by then I just LOVEEEEE the smeelll of turkey lol but i will keep everyone updated on how i am doing after my surgery and up until I go in for it...AND I have been told that there is a computer on the floor I will be on in the hospital so i can check up on here when I am able to get out of bed which may take a while Thank you so much for all the love im getting on here

thank you so much to all of you ....it makes me feel better to know that I have so much support for this...I am going to try get some sleep now though so I am not a cry baby tomorrow (no sleep for me means I even cry at commercials lol) .... thank you so much again though you girls are all amazing so glad i am on here

Soo this is a really rough topic for me but i just need to get this out....I have colon cancer and in a week and a half (Sept 25th) will be having major surgery to have my entire colon removed ....im beyond terrified!!! I have a genetic condition that I got from my mom that means I definately was going to get colon cancer and I know have it...and its a disease that I lost my mom to when I was 13 ....Now that I am 21 I have to go through surgery to pretty much save my life before I get really sick and I have been having alot of breakdowns lately and Will (my FI) has been amazing with me but I just dont know what to do some days. I just wish I could finish college with my friends who are all doing 4th year right now but instead I have to be doing this...its a long surgery and then I am in hospital for two weeks after and then in bed for 3 months and then back in for a second surgery and after that it is about a month recovery and then I can go back to regular life!...thats just such a long time and it really bothers me So tomorrow I am meeting with my specialist for my final appointment before the surgery and I already had a breakdown tonight thinking about this its becoming way too real and i just wish I could be healthy and not have to go through this I just really needed to vent on here and get this out....I am having a really difficult time thinking about everything that is going to start happening in a week ...its going to be February or so before im all better and until then I am pretty much on a liquid diet ....well the only good thing that I can joke about is that my FI said this is the best diet ever (I dont need one though lol) and I will be really tiny when i go try on wedding dresses lol....but seriously this is getting scary and im having alot of trouble sleeping at night lately ....I havent slept alone in about a year and will miss Will ALOT when I am in hospital for two weeks...but I know this will make me better its just gonna be a really long road for recovery.... thanks for listening to me..sorry this was so long

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sorry if this thread is offending other girls but sweetie dont worry this doesnt offend me and shouldnt bug anyone and im sure alot of couples have gone through this its just so hard to talk about sometimes so dont worry youve been so strong to even bring it up im sure just tell him and be honest that your fear is exactly what you just wrote to me and i am so sure that he will tell you that is something you never have to worry about ill PM you about this..there are other things i wanna explain but not on here lol

aww sweetie I am not sure what to tell you but I am sure that the two of you will always be great together so dont worry about that but have you tried to sit down and have a talk with him about how much this is bothering you?? does he have an idea of what you feel??