Michelle

wow gorgeous pictures! you looked amazing!

so a little update lol...its my first time on the computer in a couple days....im slowly getting my strength back..its still a bit of a marathon even to get to the bathroom lol...but my FI took two weeks off work to get me better so slowly im getting a bit stronger...each day seems to be better

thanks everyone! im FINALLY home as of about an hour ago wowww i never realised how much i missed home til i walked in the front door tonight and started bawling!!

heyyy so ive missed BDW soooo much and all the lovely ladies on here! but i just was able to get to a computer so i thought i would say hi my surgery was tuesday morning and its now saturday night and im able to get out of bed almost by myself but i dont walk alone wheni do my amazing FI walks with...in a walk that would probably take a normal healthy person about 5 mins it takes me about 30 mins but its ok:) and im having the hardest time typing right now because im still sooo drugged! lol..they just took my morphine pump away though i was a little sad lol....but anyways i should go back to bed soon im sooo tired it takes me about 5 mins to get out of bed because im so sore! but i wanted to say thank you for all the support you lovely ladies gave me!! i am so happy the surgery is over and im so much better and in less pain than i expected!! the doctors say i may even be able to get home by tuesday and ive kinda loved being in hospital because ive gotten soooo spoiled lol...my aunt bought me an amazing portable dvd player and my FI got me a nintendo DS today so im loving all the attention but anyways ladies im off to finish my walk and go back to bed...but ill be back on here as soon as i can! hope everyone is doing well

thanks girls! well im off to bed now...i have to go to the hospital for 6 in the morning ....but ill come back on here whenver i can and let you know how it went

Quote: Originally Posted by Christa Oh girl, best wishes for "as expected" outcome. I understand your freak out...it must feel like every thing is out of your control. Who is going to the hospital with you?? thankss...my FI and my mommys sister are taking me to the hospital but my grandparents and cousins and lots of friends are coming to visit me once im getting better

soo i know i wrote to vent to all the BDW girls earlier last week about my surgery to have my colon removed, but tomorrow is the big day ....i have to be at the hospital very very early in the morning and then by tomorrow afternoon i should be done but ill be in hospital for two weeks or so im writing this because im having a big freakout right now since i just had to pack up clothes and all my stuff i want to bring to the hospital and this is all getting to feel so real that im terrified but thanks for letting me vent...ill be on here when i can in the next couple weeks i hope...

plums : pit

romance : flowers

joy: christmas

oh wow sounds like a rough situation because you dont want to hurt your FI or MOH....but honestly i would get a little upset with your MOH and just let her know that if she wanted to get really drunk and have fun to have just been honest and upfront or atleast not try act like she did nothing wrong by doing this..if she is going to plan a whole event for you thats so sweet and generous of her its just not fair to dump everything on you and FI at the actual event when you should be the two getting drunk and having fun....honestly i think there are times in friendships to be nice and candy coat things but i would just let her know that she did hurt you and that what she did was really not a fair thing at all and maybe if she can try get her to talk to your FI and apologize for ruining his night

ok awesome thanks wow that is a really good song! thanks:)

as easy as it is for the rest of us to say try be strong and im sure you will get an answer for all of this soon

is that for sure what its called??

hmmm that sounds like a cute song im trying to download it but i cant find it...ill let you know when i do

im thinking of having my big brother walk me down the aisle and give me away ....my mom passed away when i was 13 and i dont get along at all with my dad so i figured it was best to ask my brother to do this....hes the one thats always been there for me and cared for me, only seems fair for him to do this

im thinking of the song "my best friend" by tim mcgraw my FI hates country songs but this one i had him listen to and the words are so perfect! we were both so down and lonely and were good friends for a while and then realised we both liked each other and had been right in front of each others faces for three years lol....so i think ive convinced him on this song

wow those are gorgeous pictures!! you had an amazing photographer!

project runway : heidi klum

oh wow im so sorry! like all the others ladies have said try to talk to him and if that doesnt work that stay somewhere else for a couple days and im sure he will realise that he misses you....but good luck with everything

hmmm good question....i would say ya maybe ask your mom to hold onto the ring for you im not wanting to have a wedding party either but i never thought about this

kate i REALLY love the idea of having a bouquet of white flowers and a coloured one for each lost loved one!!! wow i think i might use that

welcome to the forum! it can be overwhelming to pick a location for your DW but this site is so amazing for helping with that decision good luck!

lol i called my FI at work to tell him about it and he is getting everyone to change it! so now im thinking maybe the new facebook isnt so bad if it has options like this lol

hahahha ok so i was just laughing so hard i was in tears when my friend called me about this... if you have facebook go to your settings in the top right corner and click on language...change it to "english(pirate)" and i promise you it will be pretty freaking hilarious to see all the changes it makes to your facebook!!! let me know what you think lol...as of now im never changing mine back to regular english!!