My MOH and I have been having "freind" problems, I have posted about it before. Long story short: she had been having financial problems and was not going to be able to make it to my wedding. I was sad that she couldnt come, and I told her it was important for her to be there, and I would pay for her trip. She caled me the next day and said she had the money and she would be there.
Fast forward two weeks, and she is avoiding me and not returning phone calls. I finally get ahold of her and ask her if something is bothering her? Was it me, or is it just life. She then proceeds to rip me a new A*whole. Saying that I practically forced her to come to my wedding, and why should she come when I wasnt going to hang out with her after I got marrieed, because I would be on my honey moon (?!?!) ANd that I was asking to much of her.
I had not asked anything of her, except to be there. I was really bummed that she all of a sudden wasnt into it. I understood that it was MY wedding and no one would be as excited as I would, but a little excitment would be nice.
So at the end of the conversation I was pissed that she just ripped me a new A*whole, for no good reason, and I suggested that her money would better be spent getting her life back on track and I dont want to have to worry about her bringing me down on my wedding day.
She hung up on mye. and last night I recieved her RSVP with a big NOT ATTENDING!!!!!!!! written accross it.
Needless to say Im pretty bummed out, not only that our freindship is gone, but its a huge slap in the face. Sorry my vent is so long, Im just sad and needed to get it of my chest.
Thanks for listening.