shellk - great idea, I bet your nephew is keeping you on your toes and I'm sure you will been kept busy running around after him. Better than any excercise,,,,,,,,I will send you a PM for my first weight in.
desser - great news that your wedding meal is sorted and I am sure there won't be a prob with the beach reception.
I bet you will get a better reply from your letter if they think everyone will cancel.
Reading reviews on other sites it seems common practice that some TA's just take the wedding dates and times that the couples would like and then once they have the money, just leave it up to the hotel to confirm what ever, and then tell the B2b's that you have to wait to until you get there to confirm your time. Really bad, when they could do it all on-line when couples are in the travel shop, don't even know why they need a separate wedding dept.