We are a little opposite, sometime too much foreplay (is there such a thing, cant believe I said that), then the actual act doesnt last too long cuz we are both too hot and bothered. I love it when my FI caresses my hair and kisses the side of my neck. I also love to just lay on "my" chest (what I call his chest), I know all will be ok then (especially when he gives me a gentle peck on the forehead then).
I hate it when he hasnt trimmed his goatee in awhile, like kissing a walrus (not sure how I know what thats like). or I love the almighty fart in bed, thats HOT!