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I'm in tears!!!! I can't believe someone would be so mean!!!!

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#21 TammyWright


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Posted 17 December 2009 - 01:38 AM


move on...seriously, unhappy people will try to bring you down with them

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#22 Raykel

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    Posted 17 December 2009 - 01:57 AM

    Wow. That was incredibly mean and if it wasn't meant then it would not have been done anonymously. I am so sorry. I agree with everyone else so far though....someone is very jealous of you and your FI's happiness. Try and let it go for what it is...garbage.

    That being said, I would tell my FI because whether it was one of his friends or mine, it is nice to have the heads up that the person is maybe not that trustworthy. Password protect your site - if it isn't already and get ahold of the administrators. Find out who the culprit is - you don't have to confront him/her....just file it away in the vault so you know. Then delete that post and try to move one.

    Enjoy your wedding and all the planning. Your happiness is what is important and it sounds like the rest of the posts are very loving and supportive. Remember that and try not to let this one bring you down.

    #23 amygirl1169

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      Posted 17 December 2009 - 02:21 AM

      What a pathetic, pitiful person that would bother to spread their negativity like that. Don't waste your time worrying about the sad loser that wrote it. That would just satisfy them.

      You know it's not true, that's all that matters.

      #24 josee

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        Posted 17 December 2009 - 09:20 AM

        That is very rude!!! Did you try to remove the comment? Try not to let it bother you and focus on the warm wishes you received. Hope your week will get better!

        #25 Ana


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        Posted 17 December 2009 - 11:15 AM

        do you know who wrote it?

        #26 *Heather*


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          Posted 17 December 2009 - 12:26 PM

          Ouch, that is really brutal. I'd be pissed and I'd want to know who wrote that for sure. If your site is weddingwindow, you can see the IP address on the visitor log.

          Try not to let it bother you or put a cloud over the nice happy warm comments people have left. Those are the people that matter.

          #27 snoopAsh

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            Posted 17 December 2009 - 12:34 PM

            SO rude!

            I am sorry you are upset. Hang in there! People are aholes!
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            #28 diamondpooch

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              Posted 17 December 2009 - 02:16 PM

              Thanks for all the loving words ladies. I've already deleted the comment, and now I don't know if I'll be able to get admins to track down the IP since I've already deleted it. I have no idea who it could have been. I was racking my brain trying to think who would even have our wedding website unless they got a STD and surely none of those people (people we love and invited to the wedding) would write something like that! Then my MOH reminded me that my FI has a facebook page where he approves friend requests for anyone who hits him up (aka, he has tons of friends on facebook who he doesn't even know) and our wedding website link is posted on his page. She thinks that probably one of FI ex girlfriends or friend of the ex girlfriend posted it. How rude though, still!
              Anyone who truly knows us knows that I work hard at my job and my FI and I have the SAME amount of money so for someone to say that I'm gonna take him for all he's worth is ridiculous and inaccurate!
              I'm scared to tell FI still! I don't want him straining his brain if it was one of his jealous friends or not and wondering which person in his life doesn't approve of our marriage. What a nightmare.
              I'm pretty much over it, and have deleted the message, but BOY WOULD I LIKE TO KNOW WHO WROTE IT.

              #29 *Heather*


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                Posted 17 December 2009 - 02:20 PM

                If it's ridiculous and inaccurate then I think you should just ignore it. Whoever said it is obviously just dumb or jealous, so just move on and try to pretend like it never happened. If you let it get you upset, they win.

                #30 Lady_Di

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                  Posted 17 December 2009 - 06:36 PM

                  Blahh, that is so uncool. You shouldn't let it bother you at all...what's most important is that you're marrying your man!! :)

                  Shake them haters off!!

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