are you doing pre-marital counseling
Posted 21 July 2010 - 11:36 PM
Posted 23 July 2010 - 09:55 PM
Posted 23 July 2010 - 10:25 PM
Posted 24 July 2010 - 05:03 PM
It is really a wise investment into a marriage to start off on solid footing and have a good understanding of different things that may arise so that you can be aware and take precautions to avoid some of the pitfalls others may fall into. To each his/her own, but I would never get married without having pre-marital counseling. Anything to help ensure that we have a stronger, healthier marriage is most welcomed!
Posted 25 July 2010 - 11:34 AM
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Posted 03 August 2010 - 12:23 PM
I've never even thought about it. We've lived together for 3 years already which for me is the most important thing.
Posted 27 August 2010 - 08:52 PM
I have been thinking about the benifits...it sounds like a pretty good idea. Now I have to convince my fiance
Posted 04 December 2010 - 04:40 PM
im still undecided on this. will wait til closer to the date and decide then. FH will be against it i'm sure
Posted 07 December 2010 - 10:24 AM
My fiance and I went through an 8 week pre-marriage course at a local church. After 5 couples that we knew went through the course, they all had amazing things to say about it. The course is designed for seriously dating OR engaged couples and was by far the BEST thing we did. We were not actually engaged during the class, which is ok by them, because they are there to guide you to the point where you make the best decisions. Although I THOUGHT I knew my fiance well, this class opened our eyes to new things that we hadnt really sat down and hashed out. We even know married couples that have sat in on the class just to strengthen their relationships.
I definitely recommend meeting with either a group, pastor, counselor (for non-religious) or an established married couple to get things out in the open and expectations shared.
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