Staying together the night before wedding?

[deannamarie85]

 

 

Originally Posted by NikkiT1021 

 

I'm traditional about this one.  Also, our resort provides the groom with a room the night before so it works out great!

 

I love that the resort provides that!

[Dellnia]

That is sweet NikkiT. It would be nice if all resorts did that. LOL

Originally Posted by NikkiT1021 

I'm traditional about this one.  Also, our resort provides the groom with a room the night before so it works out great!

 

[mandys]

Were going to sleep apart. Its just going to make seeing each other at the "alter" that much more special. Like seeing eachother for the first time Do whatever makes you happy though.

[JayKay]

At first when I mentioned this to my FI he said we will just stay together the night before, but then I explained to himI would rather not see him until I walk down the aisle to make it that much more special!

[IslandBride201x]

That is fantastic that you have that option!  I hadn't even thought about where we would sleep the night before.  We have plenty of time to figure it out, but one more thing to add to the list to think about.  This list seems to get longer by the minute...
 

Originally Posted by NikkiT1021 

I'm traditional about this one.  Also, our resort provides the groom with a room the night before so it works out great!

 

[traceysteve]

 

 

Originally Posted by JayKay 

 

At first when I mentioned this to my FI he said we will just stay together the night before, but then I explained to himI would rather not see him until I walk down the aisle to make it that much more special!

 

 

Awww..soo sweet! I never even thought of this until I came across this thread. Just another thing to think about, I guess...

 

[LisaMatterni]

I'd better to sleep separate with him just to keep the tradition in our wedding.

[meows]

We'll be staying together. We've been together for 10 years, staying apart just would be tacky; and I will need help with getting ready in the morning, and I don't think I would be able to tolerate anybody's presence other then his that early in the morning (he knows how to dodge things by now) .

[royalbride610]

Well, it will just be my fiance and I at the resort, so I'm pretty sure we're staying together the night before.  The only thing I'm having trouble figuring out is our getting ready... I definitely don't want us to get ready in the same room and I don't want him to actually see me until the ceremony... This may get a little difficult...

[harkatea]

I think it's completely your choice.

 

Personally, we are not staying together.  We've chosen to save sex for within marriage and have only slept in the same bed once.  I think this, for us, is a really good expression of our commitment to the covenant of marriage, our religious commitments, and how we want to be accountable to others.  But those are all such personal reasons for us, I think the decision should come between you two.