Jump to content
Sign in to follow this  
hanna

Staying together the night before wedding?

Recommended Posts

Are you guys staying together the night before the wedding or splitting up?

 

I prefer to stay together, but my MOH and the best man say we should split up. We live together and sleep together every night, so I would prefer to be together. I don't sleep very well when he is away and I don't want to be tired or lonely the night before our wedding. Our parents aren't very traditional so they don't necessarily care. I want to get together with the girls and hang out, just not necessarily all night..

 

If you guys are staying apart, what are your reasons. Just wondering if I am missing something.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I think it is completely you and your FIs choice! dont let your MOH and BM make the decision for you. I know i wouldnt sleep apart because we already live together and I have trouble sleeping alone now.

It is totally your choice :)

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My FI and I have lived together for a little more that three years, so he has seen me looking my best and worst. I plan on staying apart because I think that it will heighten the anticipation of seeing me for the first time that day as I prepare to become his wife.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My husband I and I lived together for three years and have a child together so really!! LOL. He got up early the day of the wedding and got dressed in his best man's suite so we did not see each other until the wedding. Do what is best for you!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I think it is up to you two what you want to do. DH and I lived together before we got married but decided not to stay together the night before the wedding. I am glad we did because I was so excited to see him and it was fun thinking what he is doing and what he is thinking.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

DH and I live together (and are already married legally). We are going to stay together the night before, then kiss good-bye in the morning (ceremony is at 5:30). It's your choice !

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

FI and I are staying together the night before too. We are also kissing goodbye in the morning then won't see each other again until our ceremony at 6P. We've talked about sleeping separately but we plan on making our last night as "single" as special as our first night as "married."

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I don't think there's a right or wrong answer here. We have been together for 8 years, 2.5 of those we've lived together. I honestly don't think I would be able to sleep if we were to split up for the night! We are in no way romantic, so we'll be staying together the night before. The way I look at it is, we want to be together every night, so what's the big deal! Do whatever you feel is right for you!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

My DH and I stayed together the night before our wedding, in fact we got up early, got a couple massage and then walked the beach for a little bit. It was such a great way for us to relax and just enjoy a private moment together. After the walk on the beach he headed to one room to get ready and I went back to our room to get ready.

 

I think you should do whatever it is that makes you both comfortable, weddings can bring on so many emotions, so do what will makes you guys happy.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Sign in to follow this  


  • Best Destination Wedding Sponsors



    Facebook Pinterest Google+ Twitter
  • Posts

    • What color is your wedding? You can go with warm autumn-inspired colors such as burnt oranges, dark reds, burgundy, bright yellows, like fall foliage   https://printsbery.com/invitations/wedding/burgundy   What planning have you guys done?  
    • We booked our wedding for April 2021 but the venue let us know at this time they are still implementing Covid measures so we should not have more than 50 guests, etc. We also made sure the contract had an "out" clause that would let us get a refund should the pandemic blow up again, or have the ability to reschedule without penalty.
    • I am having my wedding scheduled in November 2020. I am too much worried about how all the things will be managed in this pandemic situation. About everything like the guest list, preparations, my attire and all. The only thing I am relaxed is about finances. In Feb only me and my fiancé applied for the wedding loans. We have applied early because both of us are having bad credit we had a doubt that it will be approved or not. But our wedding loans with bad credit were timely approved and we have planned accordingly but now this pandemic has spoiled all our preparations. We are trying to be positive and trying to celebrate our new beginnings.
    • Welcome. I am a past Dreams Los Cabos bride. Please let us know if we can assist in any way. We have some great promotions (bride and groom fly free, comped rooms and upgrades).    info@wrighttravelagency.com
    • Hi all. My fiance and I are getting married at Dreams Los Cabos in Cabo San Lucas on April, 2021! We've been together for 3 years and we are so excited for our little wedding!  
  • Topics

×
×
  • Create New...