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#21 JoLo908

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    Posted 18 August 2008 - 11:26 AM

    Rachel, I am so sorry... but you are so strong for admitting that things were not what you wanted them to be. You will be better for it in the end.

    #22 ErinB


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      Posted 18 August 2008 - 11:35 AM

      Rachel - I'm sorry you are going through this, but you sould like you are doing well.

      My only piece of advice, that may already have been offered, is to give yourself time to heal. Be sure to do something just for you!

      The right guy is out there, he just needs to find you!

      Good luck!

      #23 jajajaja

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        Posted 18 August 2008 - 11:52 AM

        Rachel I am so sorry to hear that you are going through all this. My heart just aches for you. However, I'm happy to see how strong you are. It takes a lot of balls to follow through with what your heart and gut are telling you so I give you much kudos for being brave. You are absolutely correct that it is easier now than later. I just had a talk with one of my friends that is in serious trouble in her relationship and she doesn't want to throw 4 years away. I only asked her what would she say to her future self if she realized she stayed and then threw 20 years away. She still couldn't get herself to cross that road even though she knows she should. I believe you are much better off than she will be. :)

        If you need anything- even just to chat, let us know! Take some time to heal.
        Happily married since 2008

        #24 Yari

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          Posted 18 August 2008 - 11:56 AM

          I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this.

          You sound so positive and strong. If you ever need to talk I am here.

          #25 ginalynn

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            Posted 18 August 2008 - 12:06 PM

            I am so sorry to hear about this! You are right though, if things are not right now, they aren't going to be right in the future. You made a good decision and you should be proud of that! Best wishes to you, let me know if I can do anything for you!

            #26 LadyP

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              Posted 18 August 2008 - 01:18 PM

              Sorry that you are dealing with this.

              #27 A10CalGal

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                Posted 18 August 2008 - 01:53 PM

                Wow girl. Way to make a really tough, but obviously RIGHT decision! I know you are probably sad in ways, but you followed your gut, and that is the best thing you could have done.

                Cheers to your continued strength & positive outlook!

                #28 niels408

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                  Posted 18 August 2008 - 02:08 PM

                  I'm sorry, but so proud of you for being strong enough to listen to your heart & instincts and to stop it instead of going through with it to rid of the trouble of canceling. Everything happens for a reason & only makes us stronger...

                  Did you post all of your stuff your selling somewhere?

                  Good Luck :)


                  #29 mcv05001

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                    Posted 18 August 2008 - 02:31 PM

                    I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like you have your head on your shoulders. Good luck with everything, and I would be more than happy to take some things off of you hands.

                    Counting down the days.......

                    #30 Hartyt509

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                      Posted 18 August 2008 - 03:19 PM

                      I can't add anything to what anyone else has said apart from I wish i'd had the courage to do that before I got married the last time. It was much harder to dismantle everything 9 months later and much nastier.

                      Stay strong you'll be happier than ever soon I am x

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