BM Preggers!

[Alyssa]

wow Yari - that happened to us with 2 of our brdial party - we are happy for them too!

 

but question, if she just got pregnant - why won't she be able to make it - won't she only be like 5 or 6 months by the wedding?

[Chiquita]

Holy Christine.. that is crazy about your friend.. jeez.

[rodent]

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Originally Posted by Alyssa wow Yari - that happened to us with 2 of our brdial party - we are happy for them too! but question, if she just got pregnant - why won't she be able to make it - won't she only be like 5 or 6 months by the wedding?

my friend will be 5 1/2 months but doesn't feel comfortable going. She doesnt want to be in another country & possibly have a complication. it's her first pregnancy & i understand her concern. I personally wouldn't want to take a trip if I could avoid it. I knew she was trying to get pregnant before we got engaged & I told her when we first announced the wedding to not consider my wedding a reason to stop trying. I'll miss having her there, but I think starting a family is much more important than making it to my wedding.

She flew out this weekend to see me instead of attending the wedding. We had a great time. She has just a little baby bump right now.

I knew stuff like this could interfer with people being able to make it. That was a big reason why I decided not to have BMs.

I will definitly share a video & pictures. I never though about a web cast. Does the hotel set that up? If you have a web cast will you let us watch it

[rodent]

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Originally Posted by Christine Yari good for you for being so understanding, one of my best friends (who was in my wedding) told another one of our best friends that she thought it was rude and inconsiderate of me to get pregnant when I knew she was graduating from college (um hello we've been out of high school for almost 10 years)...anyway she was pissed that I wasn't going to her graduation because I was having a baby...so let me tell you coming from your friends side of this, I think you are awesome to be so understanding and sweet to her about it...and I love the idea of a webcam.

geez! That is self centered. I've never even thought about going to watch a friend graduate college. Those things are so boring. I didn't even want to go to my own graduation. At my school you celebrate earning your class ring more than you celebrate graduating.

[Jenn3878]

Aww Yari - so nice and understanding of you! I would feel the same way and would want someone to do the same for me if I were in the same boat

[angitalia23]

My cousin was standing up and then found out she was pregnant also...she will be due the week after our wedding! She was scared to tell me...I was just so excited for her, I did not mind she couldnt stand up..it was a valid reason & an exciting one if that!

[Christine]

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Originally Posted by LC_Rachel Christine- that is so ridiculous. I mean seriously- a graduation? While it's a great celebration, I think giving birth to a child is a little more rewarding. Personally I was sad to graduate- from both college and high school. Guess I wasn't ready to grow up.

yes I know totally crazy, I think she is better about it now, but she said this is her only big event because no man is ever going to marry her (its a long story)

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Originally Posted by Alyssa wow Yari - that happened to us with 2 of our brdial party - we are happy for them too! but question, if she just got pregnant - why won't she be able to make it - won't she only be like 5 or 6 months by the wedding?

Alyssa, I personally wouldn't travel out of the country right now, I know I can, but honestly I am flying this weekend and really not looking forward to being on an airplane for even an hour. I never know how I am going to feel and traveling just doesn't help the situation.

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Originally Posted by Morgan geez! That is self centered. I've never even thought about going to watch a friend graduate college. Those things are so boring. I didn't even want to go to my own graduation. At my school you celebrate earning your class ring more than you celebrate graduating.

I know Morgan I didn't even attend my college graduation, I didn't care, she has sent out annoucements and party invites, she is really really excited about it, which is great for her, but it was weird of her to be upset with me about it.

[Yari]

She is six weeks and due in November, this makes her around 8 months in October. It is too risky at that point. Plus, I think she would be so uncomfortable preggers in heat and humidity.

 

Of course you can all watch the webcam. Her husband is a techy so he is going to try and figure something out.

[Bride010101]

Yari I just wanted to say you are so sweet and so considerate!

[LadyCheese]

Yari, you handled the situation so well...you are too sweet. I too had a friend (BM) who became pregnant, I was super excited & happy for her bc she thought she would not be able to have another baby but it was bittersweet bc I knew I would miss her on my wedding day also.