Thanks for this thread, it's a relief to know that it's not just me, but really it's not too bad for me.
Some people have asked me why I'm having it so far away and I have a legitimate reason: some members of my family cannot come to the States so I HAVE to have it in Mexico, not that I'm not having a blast picking out places.
But I think that the same people who have immediately counted themselves out also would have complained if it was an hour away, so frankly, it's less grumpy people I have to feed a very expensive dinner to:)