Quote: Originally Posted by MSBRANDI Today I took my mom, grandma, and brother their invites/std/newsletter. I knew from the start of my planning this wedding that there would be people that would not go, ok that's fine. The only thing that sort of irritated me about this is the fact that last week my grandma was all looking forward to going on this cruise with us. And today, she just kept on complaining and saying all this stuff about people don't have that kind of money, yada yada yada. I just told her that it's ok, just come to the reception here at home if she wants.
Because of this I decided to only invite the immediate family of my mother's side, because they seem to be the most negative about the whole thing. Plus, I don't talk to none of the other aunts and uncles anyway. Do you think this is wrong? I figured I could just give them an invite to the reception announcing that we got married wherever.
That is definitely a tough thing but I think that you are dealing with it the right way. Just go with the flow and invite and associate with people with good karma and pleasant attitudes. People who are being negative really dont help at all. Good luck and I know everything will work out!