Malisa you are funny girl! Glad you can keep a positive attitude tho- but pvbeachbride10 you gotta do what's gonna make you and your man happy. You're not getting married for your family after all. You just plan your dream wedding, be happy to spend time with those who support you, and let the others do their thing. When you're in Mexico call on your MOH or BM to be the "go to girl" and when family has a complaint or wants to be critical pass the buck- just tell them you're there to celebrate one of the happiest times of your life and don't want to hear it right now. She can give you the details once you're back home- or not! Chin up cuz y'all certainly are not alone on this one!